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*NSFW* ERP- should both IRL partners be okay with it? - thatgirl - 10-07-2014

My soon-to-be-ex boyfriend have been arguing constantly because he cannot - will not- stop engaging in ERP. He knows I feel it is akin to cheating, but he doesn't feel the same way. According to him, I am stupid and an idiot because I asked him to respect our relationship and stop playing out sexual fantasies online. I'd re

RE: *NSFW* ERP- should both IRL partners be okay with it? - McBeefâ„¢ - 10-07-2014

...lol

RE: *NSFW* ERP- should both IRL partners be okay with it? - Val - 10-07-2014

(10-07-2014, 12:11 PM)Natalie Mcbeef Wrote: ...lol


A'yup.

RE: *NSFW* ERP- should both IRL partners be okay with it? - Berrod Armstrong - 10-07-2014

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RE: *NSFW* ERP- should both IRL partners be okay with it? - Unnamed Mercenary - 10-07-2014

(10-07-2014, 12:07 PM)thatgirl Wrote: My soon-to-be-ex boyfriend have been arguing constantly because he cannot - will not- stop engaging in ERP. He knows I feel it is akin to cheating, but he doesn't feel the same way. According to him, I am stupid and an idiot because I asked him to respect our relationship and stop playing out sexual fantasies online. I'd really like some feedback. Please keep in mind that he has cheated on me IRL, with a girl from the game.

Below, I've included some examples of his ERP. Names have been edited to protect the perverts. 

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I don't think anyone here is particularly interested in reading the ERP. It doesn't add to the discussion.

If you feel uncomfortable that your boyfriend in engaging in ERP and he doesn't respect that, you should evaluate your relationship. It doesn't sound healthy if he's berating you, in addition to cheating on you.

RE: *NSFW* ERP- should both IRL partners be okay with it? - McBeefâ„¢ - 10-07-2014

(10-07-2014, 12:12 PM)Berrod Armstrong Wrote: [Image: troy-staring-gif.gif]

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RE: *NSFW* ERP- should both IRL partners be okay with it? - Roen - 10-07-2014

(10-07-2014, 12:17 PM)Natalie Mcbeef Wrote:
(10-07-2014, 12:12 PM)Berrod Armstrong Wrote: [Image: troy-staring-gif.gif]

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Stealing from Berrod.

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RE: *NSFW* ERP- should both IRL partners be okay with it? - Kage - 10-07-2014

(10-07-2014, 12:11 PM)Val Wrote:
(10-07-2014, 12:11 PM)Natalie Mcbeef Wrote: ...lol


A'yup.
^

OP
A) You need to have a serious discussion with your partner.

If you are upset that he cheated on you and think he is using the game and ERP to facilitate why not just dump his ass?

RE: *NSFW* ERP- should both IRL partners be okay with it? - McBeefâ„¢ - 10-07-2014

(10-07-2014, 12:18 PM)Roen Wrote:
(10-07-2014, 12:17 PM)Natalie Mcbeef Wrote:
(10-07-2014, 12:12 PM)Berrod Armstrong Wrote: [Image: troy-staring-gif.gif]

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Stealing from Berrod.

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RE: *NSFW* ERP- should both IRL partners be okay with it? - Kage - 10-07-2014

I'm a moth to the flame.

A bottlenecker on the freeway.

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RE: *NSFW* ERP- should both IRL partners be okay with it? - Melodia - 10-07-2014

I read it.....I cannot unread.

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RE: *NSFW* ERP- should both IRL partners be okay with it? - Blue - 10-07-2014

I'd dump him, too. Who needs an IRL partner when you've got a MMO subscription anyways?

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RE: *NSFW* ERP- should both IRL partners be okay with it? - Warren Castille - 10-07-2014

Cheated on you IRL.

Cheating on you in-game.

...soon-to-be-ex.

I'm not even making fun, I just don't understand how these things exist in that order.

RE: *NSFW* ERP- should both IRL partners be okay with it? - Unnamed Mercenary - 10-07-2014

(10-07-2014, 12:30 PM)Warren Castille Wrote: Cheated on you IRL.

Cheating on you in-game.

...soon-to-be-ex.

I'm not even making fun, I just don't understand how these things exist in that order.
^basically this.

If he's that bad IRL, his actions in the game shouldn't matter.

RE: *NSFW* ERP- should both IRL partners be okay with it? - Crisiet - 10-07-2014

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