Thanks for this topic! Â I love being able to delve into Miji and really consider her thinking on different matters.Â
To start off with, Mijisaa is in her forties and has been married over a decade to her childhood sweetheart Pipituu so she thinks about sex much differently than a younger or single character would.  (Her husband is played by my IRL partner as well and neither of us ERP with our chars.)  Considering this, Mijisaa would probably be considered quite old-fashioned in the sexual sense:  she’s heterosexual and has had only one partner her whole life.  Her first attraction to him was as a friend, as someone she could trust, before anything like a relationship came along. Mijisaa would NEVER discuss the sexual side of her marriage with others, it’s very private and she would consider it rude for someone to ask. Â
Considering dominance, Mijisaa is used to being in charge.  She runs a business and an underground organization and she doesn’t tolerate people who don’t give her the respect she think she deserves.  However, Pipituu is in all ways in equal in the marriage.  They both approach their relationship as a partnership with each side giving equal amounts of effort. In public decisions Mijisaa takes the reins of course but in private they value being equals.
If anything, Mijisaa’s mind just doesn’t consider sex that often.  She’s entirely too focused on other things for that to be on her mind.  If a person is capable and can do the job she needs them for, she could care less about their sexual preferences and/or leanings.  Seeing public displays, flirting, or whatever would not both her.  She’d just chalk it up to people not being as busy or focused as she is. :p  If someone flirted with her, she’d probably shrug it off.  She was once young and heiress to a very large family fortune/business so she had plenty of suitors come and go.
Prostitution is interesting with her.  She acknowledges that it is a necessary part of city life, that it’s always been there.  Mijisaa already is involved with plenty of shady things (i.e. gambling rings, blackmail schemes, smuggling, market manipulation, saloons, illegal liquor/drug trade) but prostitution is something she stops at, the one thing she won’t be involved in.  As far as she’s concerned, if someone wants to buy drugs and ruin themselves, she doesn’t care.  However, prostitution can have an innocent party.  Mijisaa has been known to buy prostitutes and bring them into her home to free them and give them jobs as servants or in her business.  She’s quite involved with refugees and orphans in Ul’dah (after all, her husband was one once) so prostitution can easily be tied to those groups.
To start off with, Mijisaa is in her forties and has been married over a decade to her childhood sweetheart Pipituu so she thinks about sex much differently than a younger or single character would.  (Her husband is played by my IRL partner as well and neither of us ERP with our chars.)  Considering this, Mijisaa would probably be considered quite old-fashioned in the sexual sense:  she’s heterosexual and has had only one partner her whole life.  Her first attraction to him was as a friend, as someone she could trust, before anything like a relationship came along. Mijisaa would NEVER discuss the sexual side of her marriage with others, it’s very private and she would consider it rude for someone to ask. Â
Considering dominance, Mijisaa is used to being in charge.  She runs a business and an underground organization and she doesn’t tolerate people who don’t give her the respect she think she deserves.  However, Pipituu is in all ways in equal in the marriage.  They both approach their relationship as a partnership with each side giving equal amounts of effort. In public decisions Mijisaa takes the reins of course but in private they value being equals.
If anything, Mijisaa’s mind just doesn’t consider sex that often.  She’s entirely too focused on other things for that to be on her mind.  If a person is capable and can do the job she needs them for, she could care less about their sexual preferences and/or leanings.  Seeing public displays, flirting, or whatever would not both her.  She’d just chalk it up to people not being as busy or focused as she is. :p  If someone flirted with her, she’d probably shrug it off.  She was once young and heiress to a very large family fortune/business so she had plenty of suitors come and go.
Prostitution is interesting with her.  She acknowledges that it is a necessary part of city life, that it’s always been there.  Mijisaa already is involved with plenty of shady things (i.e. gambling rings, blackmail schemes, smuggling, market manipulation, saloons, illegal liquor/drug trade) but prostitution is something she stops at, the one thing she won’t be involved in.  As far as she’s concerned, if someone wants to buy drugs and ruin themselves, she doesn’t care.  However, prostitution can have an innocent party.  Mijisaa has been known to buy prostitutes and bring them into her home to free them and give them jobs as servants or in her business.  She’s quite involved with refugees and orphans in Ul’dah (after all, her husband was one once) so prostitution can easily be tied to those groups.