(04-03-2015, 11:06 AM)Graeham Ridgefield Wrote: My main concern is that all too often those who organise such things tend to just grab their friends or anyone perceived as popular and then when they run out they just stop taking the initiative to find fresh blood.
(04-03-2015, 11:38 AM)Graeham Ridgefield Wrote: So when I do do such things it's usually for a handful of individuals that my character has gotten to know in-game which allows me to indulge in what I enjoy best: role-play with a heavy focus on character interaction and development rather than a stereotypical social event where people just sort of mingle with each other. I get my dose of that elsewhere so attending such gatherings consistently would make them very stale for me.
I want you to reread what you've written and then explain to my why it's okay when you do it.