(06-05-2015, 11:38 PM)Verad Wrote: Great! Let's talk about those. In what way do you feel those references are lacking? If those address the most common solutions, what do you think is missing that isn't so wholly unique as to be within the realm of individual experience, but still out of the ordinary enough that it wouldn't be thought of when writing these kinds of guides? How can those problems be addressed?
I don't. The people coming forward in this thread claiming that these common solutions don't work for them do.
I have no idea what point you're attempting to make here, or what messages you're reading at this point. It's honestly as if you're speaking another, far more incoherent language.
Let's reiterate:
What's happening in this thread. Here. Right now. Is a new couple of voices chiming in and saying "Yeah, I'm having the same problem, and here's what I did to try to fix it. It didn't work."
These are the people that are now being addressed. The primary method available to us is to put names out there, and say "Here. You can always find some kind of acknowledgement with this name, no matter the circumstances that you see it in."
There's never going to be a complete "fix it" list to troubles with interpersonal interactions.
So what are you on about now? Because if this exchange is what it looks to be, you're never going to change my mind on how ridiculous you are. You could quite literally spend every word, and busted attempt at sound reasoning that could ever exist in any multitude of realities, and I would still think that your initial dismissal was not only unwarranted, but counter-productive.