(03-17-2016, 02:29 AM)McBeef© Wrote:(03-17-2016, 02:26 AM)Verad Wrote:Where is a better place then? Reddit? The Official Forums? Tumblr?(03-17-2016, 02:16 AM)McBeef© Wrote: I think you misunderstand these threads sometimes Verad. Often the problem isn't "Can I or Can't I?" because the answer is obviously, 'yes, you can'
The issue is "Will other RPers shun me, or will my personal narrative be rejected more often by others" And the answer to that is... well look at any thread on topics like these.
One could argue whether or not it's right to be snooty about RPers who do lorebending or dramatic things with their characters, but it happens. I think many people would rather have a safer character that gets lots of RP, than a more fanciful character that doesn't get any.
These threads are less about coming to a consensus and more about testing the waters, so people can get an idea of how their concept might be accepted ahead of time.
That's how I see it anyway.
I understand that perfectly well, and it saddens me every time, because this is a terrible place for water-testing, precisely because of the results of threads like these.
You could argue that people can just try things and see what happens, but it can be a rather heartbreaking experience to put a lot of time into a concept, only to see it shunned. Worse, it could even follow you like a reputation.
I agree that people should RP what they like, but I also get why people make threads like these. I also don't have a problem with the fact they're often made every year or so on the same topics, (other notable ones include, White Mages, Custom Jobs, and Primals) because opinions change, so it's a topic worth rehashing now and then.
I have no opinion on how these threads recur, but I can't recall a shift in opinion on any of the topics you've described. Depending on who's posting, they're either contentious at best or contemptuous of the concepts at worst.. The general attitude here to any concept with even a whiff of too much power is to downplay, depower, and discourage, regardless of whether or not the player is ever going to seriously engage with the concept of the person doing the asking in the first place.Â
You're right, I do think people can just try things, and I understand that rejection can hurt upon that happening. I'd rather see that, hurt and all, than have interesting concepts strangled in their cribs by these kinds of threads. If there were more "Here's ways this concept could be made interesting, even though it's not really my thing" in these threads - and there is some of that in this one, thank goodness - then I wouldn't have these problems, and I wouldn't make these posts.
As for a better place, you've got me there; this is the democracy palatable only because the alternatives are worse.
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