(04-08-2016, 02:38 AM)Kattoki Wrote: Lol things seem to be getting out of hand here, I have since spoken to my partner after everything. I am currently taking a break. Our IC relationship will continue but we are speaking to each other more about how we feel about certain things and such. I don't mind the speculation on my partner, but I am still friends with them. Finally thanks for all the support, depending out how things work out in the future I may break up or find a way to work through it.
I'm glad that things have seemed to work out. Breaks are great for re-centering yourself in RP. I hope that things stay on this positive trajectory.
If things don't seem to get better, it may be time to re-evaluate your friendship and the IC relationship. While it doesn't seem per se that this is headed into an abusive direction, sometimes those things creep up on you in game, and hit you out of nowhere. I've been there and done that before, and it's not a good place to be.
Just know that whatever you choose to do, that you have a support network of people who are willing to talk to you and hear your side of things. People who may have been there, and who can offer advice, if you feel that you need it. Looks like you probably won't, but if you do, know it's there.Â