Don't want anyone to think I haven't been checking in here and visiting websites so here is an update post!
I am checking everyone's website both of those who have messaged me ingame as well as left a message here, and tumblr. I am going to be super picky because I want to find a place where I know I will be comfortable and fit in. I've been burned one too many times in the past and I am taking extra steps of caution upon this decision.
My main concerns are:
Member count - I am not looking for a large FC. I don't want to just be some number. I also don't want to be in a group of only three people starting.
Will Kiri fit in? - She is a spy and that is what she does. Bar and taverns even if they have events that would fit around her just won't work for her, sorry.
The current active members - I need a break from having to walk on eggshells so any FC I have found interest in I am looking at their members. I want to log in, chat, joke, have fun. I don't want to deal with people who make me feel like I have to not only censor myself but change who I am to try and make sure they are comfortable. I understand this is the internet. I understand you will always run in to these people but I have the choice not to and if they were in the FC before me then they can stay there and I can stay out of it. It is nothing against the FC mind you, I just need a break from this.
I am checking everyone's website both of those who have messaged me ingame as well as left a message here, and tumblr. I am going to be super picky because I want to find a place where I know I will be comfortable and fit in. I've been burned one too many times in the past and I am taking extra steps of caution upon this decision.
My main concerns are:
Member count - I am not looking for a large FC. I don't want to just be some number. I also don't want to be in a group of only three people starting.
Will Kiri fit in? - She is a spy and that is what she does. Bar and taverns even if they have events that would fit around her just won't work for her, sorry.
The current active members - I need a break from having to walk on eggshells so any FC I have found interest in I am looking at their members. I want to log in, chat, joke, have fun. I don't want to deal with people who make me feel like I have to not only censor myself but change who I am to try and make sure they are comfortable. I understand this is the internet. I understand you will always run in to these people but I have the choice not to and if they were in the FC before me then they can stay there and I can stay out of it. It is nothing against the FC mind you, I just need a break from this.