Roen would not choose either options.
She would never wish harm on her loved ones no matter what good she can accomplish with the other two. She would never be able to make that choice.
But even wishing harm on herself for the good of others... would not be something she would accept. Because she does not trust or believe in wishes.
She is a firm believer in that you carve your path and your fate. But then when life throws a curveball at you despite your best efforts, you deal with it as it comes. This last belief has been really tested in her latest ordeals. She deals with things as best as she can, sometimes leaving things to others, having faith in what she believes them to be, and sometimes taking things on herself to make things as she believes they should be. (vague I know)
To wish something for someone else, it is almost as if you take their fate and their path away from them to wish them a certain end. That would not be something she would ever wish for, or believe it is the right thing to do. Even if she loved them dearly.
She would never wish harm on her loved ones no matter what good she can accomplish with the other two. She would never be able to make that choice.
But even wishing harm on herself for the good of others... would not be something she would accept. Because she does not trust or believe in wishes.
She is a firm believer in that you carve your path and your fate. But then when life throws a curveball at you despite your best efforts, you deal with it as it comes. This last belief has been really tested in her latest ordeals. She deals with things as best as she can, sometimes leaving things to others, having faith in what she believes them to be, and sometimes taking things on herself to make things as she believes they should be. (vague I know)
To wish something for someone else, it is almost as if you take their fate and their path away from them to wish them a certain end. That would not be something she would ever wish for, or believe it is the right thing to do. Even if she loved them dearly.