Now now. I do my best to be patient with folks who are obviously learning or getting acclimated. If you're running through dungeons in coil gear wielding a novus weapon, though, I expect you to be competent. It's a holdover from XI, really, but the first thing I do when entering a dungeon is look at my party's gear. It helps immediately determine capability given how streamlined ilvl is in XIV. Healer using an i80~ weapon? Mass-pulls are probably a poor idea. DPS both using i55 greens? Probably need to hunker down for the run.
If you're i110+ and there's no new person bonus, though, I'm going to expect you to play at that level. The best part is, this still isn't an elitist mentality despite what many would think! Someone wearing gear bought by completing dungeons should be expected to be able to clear dungeons with some sort of expediency.
It might seem like a long ways off, but eventually the gear will get there and your comfort will get there and you won't need to mark or anything, and you'll be able to chat your party up while pulling a dozen enemies without fear of death or mistake.
If you're i110+ and there's no new person bonus, though, I'm going to expect you to play at that level. The best part is, this still isn't an elitist mentality despite what many would think! Someone wearing gear bought by completing dungeons should be expected to be able to clear dungeons with some sort of expediency.
It might seem like a long ways off, but eventually the gear will get there and your comfort will get there and you won't need to mark or anything, and you'll be able to chat your party up while pulling a dozen enemies without fear of death or mistake.