03-20-2015, 01:02 AM
My own LS has been going fairly strong for about a year now, but I've always been relatively isolated from the greater Balmung community. So, I'm making this topic to ask other FC/LS leaders about the nuts and bolts behind their operation. Questions like: What amenities do you offer your members? Why do you offer them? How do you go about creating said things? What are some of your important policies? What do you look for in your membership?
I'll kick things off by sharing a few of my own implements and the ideas behind them. You can feel free to yoink any of the below things for your own LS or FC if you find anything that would be useful to you (although I'd recommend that you put your own spin on it.)
The website itself ([HERE]) took about four hours to create, with additional time spent making the background picture fit with any form of decency. It was a trial by fire.
Generally speaking, I strongly encourage website use for members of Rendezvous, although it is not mandatory. I try my very best to make the website both informative and fun, and to reinforce the RP sub-community aspect through it. I still try to make announcements 1-2 times per week over the LS, but it's highly unlikely that everyone will be on when I make said announcements.
Why? From the perspective of a LS leader who has to give information to 50+ people, it's extremely useful from my side of things. The alternative is having dozens of people send me a /tell asking the exact same question/s regarding the plot, story, or upcoming events, and that would get tedious for anybody.
I put a lot of time and thought into the content and layout of my posts there, so that they're as easy to digest for my members as possible. I also use colorful pictures and in-depth descriptions for the Events on our calendar ([HERE]), so that people can have something nice to look at and know what type of event they're signing up for in advance. SO PRETTEH.
To encourage writing and a certain level of interpersonal interaction, I also have a 'Dreams' aspect to my LS concept. Since everyone is tied together by fate, I have a forum set aside where people can post stories about their characters for other characters to experience (via a dream.) [HERE]. To my great surprise, people seem to enjoy this feature. As a leader, I make it a point to read every. single. story. and comment on each one (either in person or on their post.) I think this sort of encouragement is important to have, and I'm extra glad when I see other people leaving comments, too!
Alongside all of that, we keep a neat and organized Dream Index up-to-date, so that dreams can be easily searched for by character.
We also have an "IC Bulletin Board" on the site. This is physically represented in the upstairs of the FC house (Host Club), as a map with some bulletins tacked on top of it. But to read the bulletins posted by myself and other members, one would go to that tab to view and leave notes, themselves.
I have a post on said bulletin board that summarizes the LS main plot up to current day, too. [HERE].
However, since people have still expressed feeling lost in the day-to-day swing of things, we've recently created an IC 'News' section of the site. This IC Journal describes recent goings-on in more detail, and offers a lot more flavor text to keep things spicy. [Here].
For our shiny new members, I've composed a post for them to start at, in the hopes of assisting in their transition with us. It covers topics relating to plot information, how to get involved, and lore resources. [HERE].
For more shy or uncertain new members, we have a Mentorship Program that is aimed to offer them RP with another member once per week for four weeks. Even with the introduction scenes that everyone gets, it can still be difficult for some to jump right in. So, we do that. That is a thing we do. [HERE].
For players wanting to be more ICly involved in the community, we have a structured delegation list. Since I made Maia purposefully inept as a leader, she tends to assign every task that actually needs doing to others. [Here] is what all that looks like!
Since some people were confused at the concept and its potential benefit, I also drew a graph with a lot of arrows. So many arrows. Also a cheeky title. [Here].
After someone signs up for one of those Delegations, I send them a customized IC moogle mail accordingly. (Example in spoiler!)
Some of you may know that we run one public event per month: opening the Host Club to the public. To add some immersive details to this, I have created the following:
Of course, it requires a lot of coordination and cooperation with everyone involved to execute successfully, but it ends up being a fun event on both sides!
The FC house is very much done up in the style of a Host Club, with the exception being in the rooms upstairs (which are "employees only.")
For each event, I'll often make 1.) an event post with additional activities or information, and 2.) a personalized soundtrack for the event. Edit: For plot events, I'll usually pre-write most quickly-happening "cutscene" or detailed description posts in advance, to keep things going without making the players wait for me to type it all out.
Here are a couple of examples:
Here and here are some IC posts that were done in advance of the trial, to coordinate and inform everyone as to what was going on, and organize everyone who wished to participate.
And here is the soundtrack for the trial! *Glee for Phoenix Wright*
In case people are morbidly curious, I also spent like 5 hours transcribing the RP during the trial into a narrative, and posted it in our Dreams section. [HERE]. As you can also see, we converted a room of our FC to create a courtroom, and it was also a fairly successful detail!
This one was a bit different in theme. I try to run a variety of events, from plot-oriented, to casual get-to-know-you's, to comedic, to IC dungeon running. This one was a more casual sort, and was very well-received.
[Here] is the IC post that explained the games that were up for grabs. I took a blank Bingo card and made it "Eorzean Bingo" instead of "Human Bingo." It was a very well-received activity!
It's not too taxing, but it does involve some reading. If anyone expresses interest, we give them the basic information about us up front as they apply on our website. Then, an officer contacts them personally to ask 5 OoC questions. The questions are almost exactly from each bullet point of our Guidelines, so it's really just a verification that people read the rules and acknowledge them prior to joining. Example in spoiler!
I don't buy into drama, nor do I endorse it. I assume everyone who joins the LS is a reasonable-minded adult who is capable of showing consideration and maturity to others within a group setting. If someone tries to recruit me for some bizarre OoC social war they have against Bob MageGuy, I'm not going to get involved. I'm a Psychology Major, but there's a reason I didn't go the "counselor" route.
I ask an aggrieved person if they're filing an official complaint, and request a screenshot of the incident. I can't do much of anything without a screenshot, or it all just devolves into he said/she said. I also try to figure out how said incident negatively effected the individual in question, and thoroughly hear out both sides of the story. I do not attack or bully any individual; rather, I address the behavior, and politely ask that it not be repeated for the comfort of others within the group. If the behavior repeats, then things would be escalated, up to and including a request to depart. (Thankfully, I've never had to do that last part!)
Note: I consider "drama" and "feedback" to be two separate things. I'm more than willing to listen to comments or other constructive criticisms about events that I run, or about the LS in general. I constantly strive to make the LS a better environment with each passing week, so I don't mind new ideas.
In short - I'm in this for RP funtimes, not for OoC social mires. There will always be 1-2 people that someone won't like in a group of our size, but it's up to the individual to focus on the other 45+ people and not fixate on The One Guy Who Bothers Them. Heck, even blacklist if you need to!
Due to the limitation of only having 108 total slots within our LS (as well as officer workload capacity), we only allow one character per player in. So, no alts. Sorry!
Also, while we may initiate an app freeze if things get too hectic all at once, we don't have any intention of closing our doors to recruitment completely. If someone wants to come RP with us and be a part of things, I welcome them (so long as they pass the 5 question screening.) Inclusiveness is very important to me.
I talk about upcoming events and discuss various tinkering with my officers about 2-3 times a week. We're always bandying about and trying to think of ways to improve things for our members. We seriously talk about this sort of evolution A LOT. Thankfully, I work very well with my current team, and they are awesome and hard-working both. I rarely make a decision entirely on my own, and run it through the 'group filter' before getting it down and such.
In my mind, a perfect player is someone who:
Or pretty much just the stuff written on the bottom of this thread. (I try to do these styles of threads about once per Quarter, just to offer my perspective in what I see and a generally positive message to the LS.)
Also about once per Quarter I run a census to clear out any people who may have gone 'poof' on us without telling me. It's often unclear to me if someone is just busy, or legitimately has no interest in participating in the LS's RP. However, if anyone's ever removed due to being inactive, all they need to do is ask to be let back in and I'll reinstate all of their access and reinvite. ^^v
So, um... what sort of things do other FCs and LSs do? I'm legit curious. Again, feel free to steal any ideas listed above!
I'll kick things off by sharing a few of my own implements and the ideas behind them. You can feel free to yoink any of the below things for your own LS or FC if you find anything that would be useful to you (although I'd recommend that you put your own spin on it.)
Amenities
- One RP event per week
- Active Website
- Individual introduction scenes
- Optional Skype chat
- LS-only Membership = OK
- EU Friendly (meaning that our weekend events are mid-afternoon NA time, and we have an EU officer who watches and schedules things during EU-friendly times.)
Website Use
The website itself ([HERE]) took about four hours to create, with additional time spent making the background picture fit with any form of decency. It was a trial by fire.
Generally speaking, I strongly encourage website use for members of Rendezvous, although it is not mandatory. I try my very best to make the website both informative and fun, and to reinforce the RP sub-community aspect through it. I still try to make announcements 1-2 times per week over the LS, but it's highly unlikely that everyone will be on when I make said announcements.
Why? From the perspective of a LS leader who has to give information to 50+ people, it's extremely useful from my side of things. The alternative is having dozens of people send me a /tell asking the exact same question/s regarding the plot, story, or upcoming events, and that would get tedious for anybody.
I put a lot of time and thought into the content and layout of my posts there, so that they're as easy to digest for my members as possible. I also use colorful pictures and in-depth descriptions for the Events on our calendar ([HERE]), so that people can have something nice to look at and know what type of event they're signing up for in advance. SO PRETTEH.
To encourage writing and a certain level of interpersonal interaction, I also have a 'Dreams' aspect to my LS concept. Since everyone is tied together by fate, I have a forum set aside where people can post stories about their characters for other characters to experience (via a dream.) [HERE]. To my great surprise, people seem to enjoy this feature. As a leader, I make it a point to read every. single. story. and comment on each one (either in person or on their post.) I think this sort of encouragement is important to have, and I'm extra glad when I see other people leaving comments, too!
Alongside all of that, we keep a neat and organized Dream Index up-to-date, so that dreams can be easily searched for by character.
Communication Tools
We also have an "IC Bulletin Board" on the site. This is physically represented in the upstairs of the FC house (Host Club), as a map with some bulletins tacked on top of it. But to read the bulletins posted by myself and other members, one would go to that tab to view and leave notes, themselves.
I have a post on said bulletin board that summarizes the LS main plot up to current day, too. [HERE].
However, since people have still expressed feeling lost in the day-to-day swing of things, we've recently created an IC 'News' section of the site. This IC Journal describes recent goings-on in more detail, and offers a lot more flavor text to keep things spicy. [Here].
For our shiny new members, I've composed a post for them to start at, in the hopes of assisting in their transition with us. It covers topics relating to plot information, how to get involved, and lore resources. [HERE].
Encouraging Involvement
For more shy or uncertain new members, we have a Mentorship Program that is aimed to offer them RP with another member once per week for four weeks. Even with the introduction scenes that everyone gets, it can still be difficult for some to jump right in. So, we do that. That is a thing we do. [HERE].
For players wanting to be more ICly involved in the community, we have a structured delegation list. Since I made Maia purposefully inept as a leader, she tends to assign every task that actually needs doing to others. [Here] is what all that looks like!
Since some people were confused at the concept and its potential benefit, I also drew a graph with a lot of arrows. So many arrows. Also a cheeky title. [Here].
After someone signs up for one of those Delegations, I send them a customized IC moogle mail accordingly. (Example in spoiler!)
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The following message is written in Tancred's usual heavy script, words neatly paced in heavy black ink.
I am writing this message to Miss --- and Miss ------,
You have both volunteered to assist with the Mercantile aspect of our group, so I had hoped to offer some suggestions to you in assisting me with certain tasks. I have already spoken with Miss ---, but I understand that she is quite busy currently with her little ones and her own business. Still, I hope that you can all collaborate between yourselves - or with other groups - toward making the Host Club a stronger and more professional business environment.
Primarily, I think I need the most help in conducting rehearsals for the Host Club. This isn't so different or strange from an actual Host Club meeting, except the attendees are paired between experienced Hosts and newer or less certain Hosts. A review of what happens on Host Club day is also useful, reminding people about the menus on each table, and that the food will be prepared in advance in the kitchen area, as well as adjusting uniforms as needed. Just... a full dress rehearsal, with supervision and suggesting topics for those who are particularly... stuck?
I've heard that such a thing does wonders for confidence and morale, I mean.
Other things that could help would be to arrange some sort of etiquette classes, or like instruction. Since we're supposed to be a 'high class' establishment, it... couldn't hurt, right?
Of course, if you can think of anything else that would assist in this capacity, I entirely trust you to carry out your ideas for the betterment of everyone. I wish that I had more time to personally conduct these rehearsals for the benefit of our newer people, but I sadly find myself overly occupied with my second job and Stars business. Hence why I must delegate this task to you both, with my sincerest gratitude. I know that once you start, you'll do splendidly with it.
I wish you the best of luck, and as always, please be safe!
((OoC Note: The portions highlighted in a different color indicate sections that can be used to create RP topics in-game, or even to create events that could be posted on the calendar.
Thank you and have fun with it! ))
The following message is written in Tancred's usual heavy script, words neatly paced in heavy black ink.
I am writing this message to Miss --- and Miss ------,
You have both volunteered to assist with the Mercantile aspect of our group, so I had hoped to offer some suggestions to you in assisting me with certain tasks. I have already spoken with Miss ---, but I understand that she is quite busy currently with her little ones and her own business. Still, I hope that you can all collaborate between yourselves - or with other groups - toward making the Host Club a stronger and more professional business environment.
Primarily, I think I need the most help in conducting rehearsals for the Host Club. This isn't so different or strange from an actual Host Club meeting, except the attendees are paired between experienced Hosts and newer or less certain Hosts. A review of what happens on Host Club day is also useful, reminding people about the menus on each table, and that the food will be prepared in advance in the kitchen area, as well as adjusting uniforms as needed. Just... a full dress rehearsal, with supervision and suggesting topics for those who are particularly... stuck?
I've heard that such a thing does wonders for confidence and morale, I mean.
Other things that could help would be to arrange some sort of etiquette classes, or like instruction. Since we're supposed to be a 'high class' establishment, it... couldn't hurt, right?
Of course, if you can think of anything else that would assist in this capacity, I entirely trust you to carry out your ideas for the betterment of everyone. I wish that I had more time to personally conduct these rehearsals for the benefit of our newer people, but I sadly find myself overly occupied with my second job and Stars business. Hence why I must delegate this task to you both, with my sincerest gratitude. I know that once you start, you'll do splendidly with it.
I wish you the best of luck, and as always, please be safe!
((OoC Note: The portions highlighted in a different color indicate sections that can be used to create RP topics in-game, or even to create events that could be posted on the calendar.
Thank you and have fun with it! ))
Public Events
Some of you may know that we run one public event per month: opening the Host Club to the public. To add some immersive details to this, I have created the following:
- A Menu (with descriptions and image links for each item. It took several hours to put together.)
- A Dossier (much like a real Host Club - it's like a Menu, except of the Servers.)
- An updated flier graphic each month.
Of course, it requires a lot of coordination and cooperation with everyone involved to execute successfully, but it ends up being a fun event on both sides!
The FC house is very much done up in the style of a Host Club, with the exception being in the rooms upstairs (which are "employees only.")
Linkshell Events
For each event, I'll often make 1.) an event post with additional activities or information, and 2.) a personalized soundtrack for the event. Edit: For plot events, I'll usually pre-write most quickly-happening "cutscene" or detailed description posts in advance, to keep things going without making the players wait for me to type it all out.
Here are a couple of examples:
The Trial
Here and here are some IC posts that were done in advance of the trial, to coordinate and inform everyone as to what was going on, and organize everyone who wished to participate.
And here is the soundtrack for the trial! *Glee for Phoenix Wright*
In case people are morbidly curious, I also spent like 5 hours transcribing the RP during the trial into a narrative, and posted it in our Dreams section. [HERE]. As you can also see, we converted a room of our FC to create a courtroom, and it was also a fairly successful detail!
Valentione's Day Party
This one was a bit different in theme. I try to run a variety of events, from plot-oriented, to casual get-to-know-you's, to comedic, to IC dungeon running. This one was a more casual sort, and was very well-received.
[Here] is the IC post that explained the games that were up for grabs. I took a blank Bingo card and made it "Eorzean Bingo" instead of "Human Bingo." It was a very well-received activity!
IC Moogle Mog ("Pre Fight Cutscene" Script Example)
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Spoiler<Srori Svelt the Silver>
<Bilbo Bad the Black>
<Grinti Gren the Green>
<Winta Wynn the White>
<Parote Parn the Pink>
<Carili Carp the Chocolate>
<Retly Ril the Red>
/em | The moogles all turn in unison to view the interlopers, scattering from their vantage of hovering over the sleeping body of Seiko. A moogle in pieces of black mage garb attempts to cast another sleeping spell on the Doman, but is hurriedly yoinked back by a moogle with a quiver across her back.
/em | <Carili Carp the Chocolate> Get back, dummy! My eagle eyes can see that these adventurers aren’t to be trifled with, kupo!
/em | The black mage moogle whines in protest, his ears wilting in an open pout as he hastily retorts --
/em | <Bilbo Bad the Black> But how else will I get to show off my amazingly spectacular magical abilities? My black magic should put fear into the hearts of all who behold it, kupo. These adventurers should be shaking in their boots at my mystical might!
/em | A moogle carrying a harp darts out in front of the group, his theoretical eyebrows lifting as he views the collection of those gathered.
/em | <Parote Parn the Pink> Forget your own hubris, Bilbo. There are more important matters at hand. For example, that lovely miqo’te with the dark hair and tail*… I thought I would never behold such a vision in my minute moogle years, and yet this loveliness comes before me, kupo~ ♪.
/em | If moogles can wink, then he would do so, though the moogle carrying a white mage’s cane gives something of a roll of her eyes alongside an exasperated sigh.
/em | <Winta Wynn the White> You said the same kupo-ing thing about our prisoner...
/em | <Parote Parn the Pink> To ask me not to offer this fine lady a drink and a song would be a crime, kupo! You’re asking me to commit a felony of the heart~ ♪.
/em | The rogue-looking moogle swiftly baps the daydreaming bard on the head, soliciting a quick “Ow-po!†from the recipient.
/em | <Grinti Gren the Green> Shuddap! Have you forgotten why we’re even here? We’re trying to use this kidnapped person to summon our great King! If it worked for the Beastmen, then surely it would work for us, right, Boss?
/em | The axe-equipped moogle confidently fluttered forward, barely managing to prop his own axe across his minuscule shoulder.
/em | <Retly Ril the Red> It’ll work. We just need to use the aether of all these people as well… somehow. How the beastmen do. You know.
/em | Finally, the one garbed somewhat like a paladin pipes up, his voice squeaky and optimistic.
/em | <Srori Svelt the Silver> I think we have to defeat them in most honorable combat! If we stir up the aether of battle, our glorious King is certain to be summoned! Now, have at you, kupo!
/em | The shielded moogle ineffectually wiggles his sword toward the group, while Winta Wynn dips lower, her tone worried.
/em | <Winta Wynn the White> I-I don’t know… these people look p-pretty scary, kupopo!
/em | <Grinti Gren the Green> Tch! I knew we should have abducted a Lalafell. Lalafells never have so many large or dangerous-looking friends! (Not to mention they’re easier to kupo-ing carry!)
/em | <Carili Carp the Chocolate> Did you just call our prisoner fat!?
/em | <Retly Ril the Red> Stop bickering! We’re doing as Srori Svelt suggests. Come at us and face our might if you DARE, adventurers, kopopopopo!
/em | With that, all the moogles scatter, presumably to make preparations for whatever ritual they were cooking, leaving only one or two behind as sentries. Either way, the remaining two look as though the time for words has elapsed, weapons drawn and wings fluttering at the ready.
*I changed this portion on the spot to highlight a member of the current team.
<Bilbo Bad the Black>
<Grinti Gren the Green>
<Winta Wynn the White>
<Parote Parn the Pink>
<Carili Carp the Chocolate>
<Retly Ril the Red>
/em | The moogles all turn in unison to view the interlopers, scattering from their vantage of hovering over the sleeping body of Seiko. A moogle in pieces of black mage garb attempts to cast another sleeping spell on the Doman, but is hurriedly yoinked back by a moogle with a quiver across her back.
/em | <Carili Carp the Chocolate> Get back, dummy! My eagle eyes can see that these adventurers aren’t to be trifled with, kupo!
/em | The black mage moogle whines in protest, his ears wilting in an open pout as he hastily retorts --
/em | <Bilbo Bad the Black> But how else will I get to show off my amazingly spectacular magical abilities? My black magic should put fear into the hearts of all who behold it, kupo. These adventurers should be shaking in their boots at my mystical might!
/em | A moogle carrying a harp darts out in front of the group, his theoretical eyebrows lifting as he views the collection of those gathered.
/em | <Parote Parn the Pink> Forget your own hubris, Bilbo. There are more important matters at hand. For example, that lovely miqo’te with the dark hair and tail*… I thought I would never behold such a vision in my minute moogle years, and yet this loveliness comes before me, kupo~ ♪.
/em | If moogles can wink, then he would do so, though the moogle carrying a white mage’s cane gives something of a roll of her eyes alongside an exasperated sigh.
/em | <Winta Wynn the White> You said the same kupo-ing thing about our prisoner...
/em | <Parote Parn the Pink> To ask me not to offer this fine lady a drink and a song would be a crime, kupo! You’re asking me to commit a felony of the heart~ ♪.
/em | The rogue-looking moogle swiftly baps the daydreaming bard on the head, soliciting a quick “Ow-po!†from the recipient.
/em | <Grinti Gren the Green> Shuddap! Have you forgotten why we’re even here? We’re trying to use this kidnapped person to summon our great King! If it worked for the Beastmen, then surely it would work for us, right, Boss?
/em | The axe-equipped moogle confidently fluttered forward, barely managing to prop his own axe across his minuscule shoulder.
/em | <Retly Ril the Red> It’ll work. We just need to use the aether of all these people as well… somehow. How the beastmen do. You know.
/em | Finally, the one garbed somewhat like a paladin pipes up, his voice squeaky and optimistic.
/em | <Srori Svelt the Silver> I think we have to defeat them in most honorable combat! If we stir up the aether of battle, our glorious King is certain to be summoned! Now, have at you, kupo!
/em | The shielded moogle ineffectually wiggles his sword toward the group, while Winta Wynn dips lower, her tone worried.
/em | <Winta Wynn the White> I-I don’t know… these people look p-pretty scary, kupopo!
/em | <Grinti Gren the Green> Tch! I knew we should have abducted a Lalafell. Lalafells never have so many large or dangerous-looking friends! (Not to mention they’re easier to kupo-ing carry!)
/em | <Carili Carp the Chocolate> Did you just call our prisoner fat!?
/em | <Retly Ril the Red> Stop bickering! We’re doing as Srori Svelt suggests. Come at us and face our might if you DARE, adventurers, kopopopopo!
/em | With that, all the moogles scatter, presumably to make preparations for whatever ritual they were cooking, leaving only one or two behind as sentries. Either way, the remaining two look as though the time for words has elapsed, weapons drawn and wings fluttering at the ready.
*I changed this portion on the spot to highlight a member of the current team.
Our Application Process
It's not too taxing, but it does involve some reading. If anyone expresses interest, we give them the basic information about us up front as they apply on our website. Then, an officer contacts them personally to ask 5 OoC questions. The questions are almost exactly from each bullet point of our Guidelines, so it's really just a verification that people read the rules and acknowledge them prior to joining. Example in spoiler!
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Here are the Guidelines! Aaaand here are the questions:
1.) As per the RP guidelines on the forums, do you understand what godmoding is, and why it's not allowed?
2.) Also per the RP guidelines, do you understand what metagaming is and why it's not allowed?
3.) Is there anything lore-breaking or "overpowered" about your character?
4.) Do you understand the concept of IC = / = OoC - that actions done IC should not be taken OoC? Character drama is fine, but I don't want any drama OoC, please!
5.) Have you decided on a Star for your character, or would you still like some time to think it over? I can go ahead and lock in the Star for them if you'd like! If you haven't 100% decided yet, no worries! Just decide at some point before your character ICly looks at the Nymian book and translates their mark.
Thank you very much!
Here are the Guidelines! Aaaand here are the questions:
1.) As per the RP guidelines on the forums, do you understand what godmoding is, and why it's not allowed?
2.) Also per the RP guidelines, do you understand what metagaming is and why it's not allowed?
3.) Is there anything lore-breaking or "overpowered" about your character?
4.) Do you understand the concept of IC = / = OoC - that actions done IC should not be taken OoC? Character drama is fine, but I don't want any drama OoC, please!
5.) Have you decided on a Star for your character, or would you still like some time to think it over? I can go ahead and lock in the Star for them if you'd like! If you haven't 100% decided yet, no worries! Just decide at some point before your character ICly looks at the Nymian book and translates their mark.
Thank you very much!
Conflict Resolution Policy
I don't buy into drama, nor do I endorse it. I assume everyone who joins the LS is a reasonable-minded adult who is capable of showing consideration and maturity to others within a group setting. If someone tries to recruit me for some bizarre OoC social war they have against Bob MageGuy, I'm not going to get involved. I'm a Psychology Major, but there's a reason I didn't go the "counselor" route.
I ask an aggrieved person if they're filing an official complaint, and request a screenshot of the incident. I can't do much of anything without a screenshot, or it all just devolves into he said/she said. I also try to figure out how said incident negatively effected the individual in question, and thoroughly hear out both sides of the story. I do not attack or bully any individual; rather, I address the behavior, and politely ask that it not be repeated for the comfort of others within the group. If the behavior repeats, then things would be escalated, up to and including a request to depart. (Thankfully, I've never had to do that last part!)
Note: I consider "drama" and "feedback" to be two separate things. I'm more than willing to listen to comments or other constructive criticisms about events that I run, or about the LS in general. I constantly strive to make the LS a better environment with each passing week, so I don't mind new ideas.
In short - I'm in this for RP funtimes, not for OoC social mires. There will always be 1-2 people that someone won't like in a group of our size, but it's up to the individual to focus on the other 45+ people and not fixate on The One Guy Who Bothers Them. Heck, even blacklist if you need to!
Unpopular Policies
Due to the limitation of only having 108 total slots within our LS (as well as officer workload capacity), we only allow one character per player in. So, no alts. Sorry!
Also, while we may initiate an app freeze if things get too hectic all at once, we don't have any intention of closing our doors to recruitment completely. If someone wants to come RP with us and be a part of things, I welcome them (so long as they pass the 5 question screening.) Inclusiveness is very important to me.
Behind the Scenes
I talk about upcoming events and discuss various tinkering with my officers about 2-3 times a week. We're always bandying about and trying to think of ways to improve things for our members. We seriously talk about this sort of evolution A LOT. Thankfully, I work very well with my current team, and they are awesome and hard-working both. I rarely make a decision entirely on my own, and run it through the 'group filter' before getting it down and such.
Things I Appreciate in Membership
In my mind, a perfect player is someone who:
- Uses the website
- Helps other people (often with questions)
- Runs events (not necessary, but it's nice when I can have a break!)
- Shows up to events
- Supports other's writing
- Is patient, friendly, and mature
Or pretty much just the stuff written on the bottom of this thread. (I try to do these styles of threads about once per Quarter, just to offer my perspective in what I see and a generally positive message to the LS.)
Also about once per Quarter I run a census to clear out any people who may have gone 'poof' on us without telling me. It's often unclear to me if someone is just busy, or legitimately has no interest in participating in the LS's RP. However, if anyone's ever removed due to being inactive, all they need to do is ask to be let back in and I'll reinstate all of their access and reinvite. ^^v
So, um... what sort of things do other FCs and LSs do? I'm legit curious. Again, feel free to steal any ideas listed above!