+- Hydaelyn Role-Players (https://ffxiv-roleplayers.com/mybb18)
+-- Forum: Final Fantasy 14 (https://ffxiv-roleplayers.com/mybb18/forumdisplay.php?fid=41)
+--- Forum: FFXIV Discussion (https://ffxiv-roleplayers.com/mybb18/forumdisplay.php?fid=12)
+--- Thread: The Sin and Forgiveness Thread (/showthread.php?tid=16113)
RE: The Sin and Forgiveness Thread - Kismet - 05-18-2016
I'm sorry for leaving every time roulette gives me a dungeon or trial I hate. (Mostly Cutter's Cry, Aurum Vale, Dzemael, and Halatali.)
I'm also sorry for alt-tabbing for like... half of every Void Ark run I do as a DPS. <_<
RE: The Sin and Forgiveness Thread - Steel Wolf - 05-19-2016
I'm sorry that my attentions are so divided. In my defense, character things have been boring, but that's still not an excuse for ignoring friends.
RE: The Sin and Forgiveness Thread - Kellach Woods - 05-21-2016
I am just a horrible player in general.
That's not the sin, the sin is stating such when I know there's some peeps who'll argue the opposite.
RE: The Sin and Forgiveness Thread - Aaron - 05-22-2016
(05-18-2016, 08:27 PM)Kismet Wrote: I'm sorry for leaving every time roulette gives me a dungeon or trial I hate. (Mostly Cutter's Cry, Aurum Vale, Dzemael, and Halatali.)I think everyone does that second part.
I'm also sorry for alt-tabbing for like... half of every Void Ark run I do as a DPS. <_<
Lol I only run VA as a dps sometimes just to let everyone do the work.
RE: The Sin and Forgiveness Thread - Askier - 05-24-2016
I'm guilty of tank privilege.
Often while doing content, I just surge ahead caring nothing for people. I expect them to keep up cause I got places to be and rp to do and the daily is the least enjoyable part of my video game day and it will be over quickly. And if a healer let's me wipe on trash. Hehe.
Every healer gets one death. After that? I drop and go rp. Its leveling dungeons people. I ain't struggling through Sunken Temple when my free time is limited as is.
Speaking of Sunken Temple, some days I just flat out quit party moment I get it. I hate that dungeon so much.
Also rp. Lately I've gotten tired and lazy.
Where once my posts were para constructs of inspired effort, these days Im at risk of like two sentence posts sometimes if my work day was exceptional draining.
RE: The Sin and Forgiveness Thread - GhostlyMaiden - 05-24-2016
(05-24-2016, 08:26 AM)Askier Wrote: Also rp. Lately I've gotten tired and lazy.
Where once my posts were para constructs of inspired effort, these days Im at risk of like two sentence posts sometimes if my work day was exceptional draining.
This.
My problem right now is that I want to keep rping and have fun, but once I actually get started in the rp, I realize that my creativity and motivation are thin. At the start of rp i'll be fine, but it's when I get to around the middle/end of the rp when I start losing that motivation.
As much as I hate that my in-game availability is limited, I think it's actually good for me to not be online as much.
In other words, this is me apologizing to people who have been/trying to rp with me this past month.
RE: The Sin and Forgiveness Thread - Nebbs - 05-24-2016
My sin today is that I think I can offer you redemption through RP. Yet the offer is there, and if not me just seek to make another's RP great for them.
RE: The Sin and Forgiveness Thread - Runic - 05-24-2016
I don't take criticism well, especially when it's out out there for all the party to see. It stems from WoW days when I would run a random and every aspect of what I would do would be questioned and I'd be told how I 'should' be doing things by random strangers who don't understand that people have different play styles.
Admittedly I'm still fairly new to FFXIV, I don't have any kids at 60 yet so I don't know everything about my class and I'm learning. But don't call me out in front of people in the middle of a dungeon for something I should or should not be doing. 9 times out of 10, I won't do said thing just to spite you.
In RP terms, I would love to RP more but I am 100% legit terrible at making friends. All of the people I currently know in game know me through my fiance and I've not been able to make any friends on my own let alone find people to RP with. I never want to 'bother' people so I chicken out of messaging people here and in game.
RE: The Sin and Forgiveness Thread - Warren Castille - 05-24-2016
PMing people on the RPC to arrange something is basically the equivalent of getting mail IRL that isn't junk or a bill: It'll make someone's day. I recommend doing it if people feel the urge to.
RE: The Sin and Forgiveness Thread - Roen - 05-24-2016
I have been feeling guilty about overthinking everything RP wise and because I am overthinking it, I don't actually do much.
I have two prompts/forum RP-ish thing sitting around waiting for my response and I have yet to type a word because I am just thinking about what my response should be, what the post should entail, where it should lead...
I used to be able to just respond to it like reacting in live RP. I need to just relax, not overthink everything, and just answer the friggin' thing.
I've also contacted a few people going "Hey it would be cool to meet!" only to then realize I don't have any solid idea beyond just "meeting" so I don't follow through until I think of something more elaborate.
Also, last time I queued for a dungeon, the tank ran immediately ahead, while I was buffing. He didn't get SS nor Protect because he ran out of range. I then refused to put protect on him nor do anything other than regen him until we got to the first boss. If he ran away from my buff, I wasn't going to chase him down to give it to him, nor was I going to do anything more than minimum to keep him alive. I didn't bother to stance dance and DPS the trash either.
...Until Kas poked me about it (he was DPS in the group) and the tank pulled adds off me (I got aggro from regen :/ ) then I started to contribute again in earnest. My guilt did not last long though.
RE: The Sin and Forgiveness Thread - Ritsu - 05-29-2016
For whatever reason my anxiety is like way high again, to a point I am only comfy RP'ing with people I know and my FC. I want to break out of my bubble a bit. But even on alts, I will ignore tells (for whatever reason I think they are mt's generally) or have a total moment of panic and log off.
I am also a touch..anti-social I suppose. I feel like I could be a bother, so I tend to not message or friend people..ect.
RE: The Sin and Forgiveness Thread - RavieRaptor - 05-29-2016
My sin is that I keep screwing things up.
Oh, I finally join a guild, This guild tells me not to interract with person I enjoy rping with. Interract with him anyway. They hate me, then I left. They now shun me and are spreading rumors about me.
I joined a Guild on WoW a bit ago, the leader leaves not even a week later. (It wasn't my fault but I still felt bad.) So the guild disbands.
I tend to befriend people who no one else likes, I have no clue why either. They seem nice and then screw me over.
Now I barely have any roleplay and friends at all due to this.
I'm extremely paranoid and anxious, always thinking someone is talking bad about me. (Or that my reputation is bad, despite being told it's not.)
But I wanted to apologize to everyone who I did cause trouble to, intentionally or not, I just want a clean slate and to have fun again.
I needed to get it off my chest.
RE: The Sin and Forgiveness Thread - Tokki - 06-05-2016
I confess, that I have left Balmung, but I love lurking here and reading about RP and game stuff.
I have spent much time in this game trying to find the right character (went through about 3-4 fantasias/different names) and the right people to be around. Balmung was way too crowded for me and it wasn't the right place in the end, so I migrated to Sargatanas a few months ago. A lot of people told me the people were mean there and I'd regret it, but I found some really nice people and I even finally got a small plot I quested for. that I didn't buy from another player I just was lucky and saw an open plot yayz. Now I even found a small RP LS that might lead somewhere as well.
 I'm sorry for leaving you behind Balmung </3
RE: The Sin and Forgiveness Thread - ＧＲＡＶＥï¼ï¼¡ï¼® - 06-05-2016
I fantasia way too much, leaving all of my past characters stuck in a perpetual limbo until they fade away into obscurity and wither away into nothingness.