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RE: I am considering leaving - Edda - 12-20-2014
This suddenly seems rather dangerous.
RE: I am considering leaving - McBeefâ„¢ - 12-20-2014
(12-20-2014, 11:06 PM)Verad Wrote:(12-20-2014, 10:54 PM)Yhen Yizeh Wrote: It's honestly a bit of what. So what? Give me a fucking break. I'm a person with specific needs. Deal with it.
Roleplay is unlikely to fulfill them.
I agree. I've found Roleplaying to be far more about giving than receiving. Think about what you can /give/ to others, in terms of story, plot, and character. Do this enough and often enough, and you'll get far more in return.
However, expecting your needs to be filled can often be an exercise in futility. Do your best to bring positive things to others, and you'll be surprised how much you'll get back.
RE: I am considering leaving - Aaron - 12-20-2014
If that doesn't work there's always the B list baby girl.
I don't think anyone here has a issue with me (hope not) but I have been in a similar situation as you before a while back.Â
My advice? People online can be stressful. Best option is to avoid them and focus on the more positive people.
RE: I am considering leaving - Amelia - 12-20-2014
As another outside observer, based on your replies to this very thread as well as others I do believe this is kind of self-inflicted.
Some posts in this thread were less than nice. Others were very well-thought out, sensitive and genuinely trying to give you advice for your struggles.
Your first reaction is to instead of thanking the people who went out of their way to try sending you these messages, was to continue your trend of... honestly abrasive behavior? Instead of following the good advice to pay attention to the good and not the bad, you comment on the people that once again made you angry instead of those trying to help you.
I'm going to echo just about every single decent response in this thread and suggest that you look inward to meet these issues halfway.
As someone who only has your forum posts to go by for reputation, you haven't been making a good first impression.
I'm sorry if this offends, but I think enough is enough.
There's a high chance that I'll now be on the receiving end of your angry words as well, and you'll have pushed yet another person away who might have befriended you. And it will be my fault for saying these words to you and making you the victim again, won't it?
RE: I am considering leaving - FreelanceWizard - 12-20-2014
So... after having read through this thread, I think a lot of good advice has been provided at this point. Any additional discussions can probably be done in private. I'm concerned that this is going to expand beyond general advice-giving to something not good (either airing dirty laundry or hammering on the OP for posting the thread in the first place), so I'm just going to go ahead and close this before it gets out of hand.
I sincerely hope that those who have issues can come to terms or, if nothing else, avoid each other and live and let live. There's a whole wide world of RP out there; there's no reason to spend time around people you don't get along with.
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