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RE: Sex and Your Character/Roleplay (NSFW Discussion) - Gaspard - 10-24-2014

@ TheLastCandle : Screw you for giving me a hard-on at work.

On a serious note;

I'd advice that you don't become as.. haphazard over it. ERP isn't just roleplay. Yes, if you take it by very distanced, closed off measures, it is. Still, Women (unless the whole world was lying to me) Like to feel desired, to be enough to satisfy your needs, and the moment you consume 'any' other sexual material (May that be pornography, erotic novels and/or ERP), she may feel inadequate to your needs / sexual prefferences.

Oh, and a good measure in this regard is to think of it in a catch 22. Imagine your Girlfriend texting dirty/hot things with a male friend of hers, material that could potential 'turn her on'. Would you feel comfortable with that?

Don't forget, even if ERP is just RP, it's also Erotic, and people don't consume Erotica for the sake of the 'storytelling'.

RE: Sex and Your Character/Roleplay (NSFW Discussion) - ProvaDiServo - 10-24-2014

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RE: Sex and Your Character/Roleplay (NSFW Discussion) - Sophia_Grave - 10-24-2014

Sophia thinks of it as a vulnerability, and she regularly exploits it to manipulate others. As for her own needs, its purely physical. While not exactly one to sleep around, she'd definitely go for a physical arrangement with another, if she weren't in something of a relationship already.

RE: Sex and Your Character/Roleplay (NSFW Discussion) - Edgar - 10-24-2014

(10-24-2014, 09:06 PM)ProvaDiServo Wrote: Mod note by FreelanceWizard: Quoted text removed as it was posted using a compromised account.

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RE: Sex and Your Character/Roleplay (NSFW Discussion) - TheLastCandle - 10-24-2014

You're welcome! -takes a bow- But unfortunately, the show is over. Lol.

All I'm going to add, aside from the juicy tidbit that was already posted, is: if you decide to pursue an IC relationship at all, but especially if your story ends up going to a sexual place, please ensure that your character's partner(s) are in a healthy state of mind. Be picky as hell. Seriously. Things can spiral out of control very easily, and I consider myself fortunate that when I decided to express my character's romance IC, it was 1.) safe, with a very good friend, and 2.) with someone in a very happy relationship OOC, whose RL partner knew what was going on and what IC and OOC meant, and who would never dream of allowing things to become inappropriate OOC.

RE: Sex and Your Character/Roleplay (NSFW Discussion) - Lady Rivienne - 10-24-2014

(10-24-2014, 09:04 PM)Gaspard Wrote: @ TheLastCandle : Screw you for giving me a hard-on at work.

On a serious note;

I'd advice that you don't become as.. haphazard over it. ERP isn't just roleplay. Yes, if you take it by very distanced, closed off measures, it is. Still, Women (unless the whole world was lying to me) Like to feel desired, to be enough to satisfy your needs, and the moment you consume 'any' other sexual material (May that be pornography, erotic novels and/or ERP), she may feel inadequate to your needs / sexual prefferences.

Oh, and a good measure in this regard is to think of it in a catch 22. Imagine your Girlfriend texting dirty/hot things with a male friend of hers, material that could potential 'turn her on'. Would you feel comfortable with that?

Don't forget, even if ERP is just RP, it's also Erotic, and people don't consume Erotica for the sake of the 'storytelling'.

That wasn't Yve, by the by.

RE: Sex and Your Character/Roleplay (NSFW Discussion) - Gharen - 10-25-2014

Gharen's view on sex and sexuality is pretty much tainted by his past. He doesn't actively seek a relationship, doesn't flirt, and sex quite literally doesn't even enter into his thought process as that drive has basically been beaten out of him. He was raised believing that he was less than worthless and that no woman would ever want him as such. He is more or less completely oblivious to subtle social cues regarding this as a result.

He'd never been with a woman until not long ago, and was laughed at when he admitted the fact. And to this day remains both surprised and confused as to why she'd ever wanted to be with him from the get go, regardless of how often she, or others, might tell him why. (Years of abuse and belief, just don't get unraveled in a day.)

That said, I think sex and relationships in RP can be important and are a viable means of character development regardless of the means via fade to black or not.

One thing I'd like to point out is in CoH there was a distinction players made that I don't really see get made here very often if at all between MRP and ERP. ERP being players that were just doing the act for kicks, and MRP for people that actually RP and would delve into mature topics for story or character development.

RE: Sex and Your Character/Roleplay (NSFW Discussion) - FreelanceWizard - 10-25-2014

I removed the quoted text because it was posted using a compromised account.

#magicAdminHat

RE: Sex and Your Character/Roleplay (NSFW Discussion) - Edgar - 10-25-2014

(10-25-2014, 12:49 AM)FreelanceWizard Wrote: I removed the quoted text because it was posted using a compromised account.

#magicAdminHat

GIVE US OUR SMUT BACK-I mean, thank you!

RE: Sex and Your Character/Roleplay (NSFW Discussion) - Kellach Woods - 10-25-2014

Yeah I was wondering what was up with that.

RE: Sex and Your Character/Roleplay (NSFW Discussion) - Chillsmack - 10-25-2014

So the majority of characters give it up, it seems.

Let's hear it for Whore Pride! *high five*

RE: Sex and Your Character/Roleplay (NSFW Discussion) - Lan Darklyn - 10-25-2014

Lan:
Lan's sexual experiences are pretty limited. Before his mate he had only had sex on two occasions. Well on one occasion he woke up in a bed with two duskwight women snuggled up on either side of him. that was when he realized what whiskey does to him...So yeah he does not know if anything even happened, but there were all in bed naked so his mind of course drew a conclusion. He second encounter was with a nurse just before he went into battle at Carteneau. They were scared and thought they were going to die, why not? And now he has his mate Qih Lyehga. Lan is a very private man and up until recently he would not even kiss his woman in public so there is no way in hell he will talk about his sex life. However the two of them have shown a strong desire for intimate time with each other and neither of them is more dominate than the other, it sort of swings back and forth.

Kylar:
Kylar is a fairly new character and he does not have a actual partner right now. However as part of his back story he has been with several women in the past. He has no problems with one night stands but he will seek out only women that are just looking for a bit of fun and not an actual relationship. Recently he developed a strong attraction to a woman that would have likely settled him down, but he remains just a friend, which oddly enough he is comfortable with. So he continues to flirt when he can and we shall see where the future leads.

Yep, sex happens. It has never been a primary focus of my RP but it happens.It can make the character development feel very organic. It took a long time for Lan to even admit to Qih that he was attracted to her and even longer until they actually spent the night together. Building the relationship is a lot of fun in my opinion. As far as Kylar's casual encounters, they are also sorta a way of developing him in that it shows that this glasses wearing nerdy looking guy has a lot more going on than just reading books and studying aether.

As far as RPing the actual acts. I have done both ERP as well as fade to black and I am comfortable with doing either. I play off what my partner is comfortable with really.

RE: Sex and Your Character/Roleplay (NSFW Discussion) - U'roh Tia - 10-25-2014

Oooh this is a good one!

Well right away on my stance in the matter of difference MRP and ERP. Gharen pretty much summed it up. Some people do it for story others for kicks. Really I feel neither side is wrong, just if you're gonna do ether of them and if they have erotic content they should be confined to private channels. 

So before he had popped the question to his romantic interest he had a confused look on sex. Being a Tia, one defeated by his Nunh as well had left Roh with the impression he was undesirable and as such didn't really bother himself with it. Content to just focus on his improvement of combat skills after leaving.

However he had noticed attraction to both males and females but again those feelings of feeling he was "Unattractive" kept him from moving on those urges. Often dismissing himself when interest is shown or just denying them. He didn't even have his first encounter till his romantic partner.

Since then though he has started to slowly overcome his stigma and dedicate himself to her.

On the view of others in sex, he doesn't really see it as his business or a subject to judge somebody on.

RE: Sex and Your Character/Roleplay (NSFW Discussion) - Edgar - 10-25-2014

Why is this my most popular topic?

RE: Sex and Your Character/Roleplay (NSFW Discussion) - U'roh Tia - 10-25-2014

The Controversial ones always are popular. Lotta points to discuss!