(12-04-2013, 01:11 AM)sparky_ff7f Wrote: All my characters names were on my profile, up till now. Since i deleted. If it was just one person, i wouldn't have deleted. But it was an entire linkshell being a-holes. I was going to deal with that many people trying to ruin it for me. All my characters names have been on my profile since i signed up in September, but no one ever contacts me. So i figured no one wanted to bother. Hundreds of people read this post, not receiving a single message/add; is depressing. Every time i join an FC or LS, it always ends up the same.

(12-04-2013, 04:55 AM)LiadansWhisper Wrote:

(12-04-2013, 01:11 AM)sparky_ff7f Wrote: All my characters names were on my profile, up till now. Since i deleted. If it was just one person, i wouldn't have deleted. But it was an entire linkshell being a-holes. I was going to deal with that many people trying to ruin it for me. All my characters names have been on my profile since i signed up in September, but no one ever contacts me. So i figured no one wanted to bother. Hundreds of people read this post, not receiving a single message/add; is depressing. Every time i join an FC or LS, it always ends up the same.

The truth is, you really have to put yourself out there if you want people to add you as a friend/come RP with you.  Go RP in a tavern.  Actually, I could swear I contacted you and gave you a list of RP hangouts I knew of.  I could be wrong.  I have a (Deleted) on my flist that was a fairly recent addition.

I don't really know what you're after.  People generally don't go to you begging for your participation.  If you want RP - or contacts - you're going to have to put yourself out there.  And you're going to need to understand that yes, there are trolls.  And yes, they are assholes.  And you can report them - and Square DOES do stuff about people who are verbally abusive.  And you can Blacklist them - and yes, you SHOULD.  And the excuse, "It was an entire Linkshell" doesn't really fly.  There are thousands of Linkshells on this server, and thousands of players.  So one group of 10ish people were being dicks.  That's like, a drop in the bucket.  This is a big server.  You're going to have trolls.

(12-04-2013, 08:00 AM)Brave Wrote: You never know when someone might just "throw you at an officer" of a Free Company and be like "Talk to this person".

That never happens.

Ever.

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(12-04-2013, 03:20 PM)sparky_ff7f Wrote: Ok, i will squash this now. Since it seems people don't understand. I have gone in taverns, walked up to groups of people, etc. I have stood beside people in various venues, and posted things. I have been ignored, or walked away from. The people who don't yell at me for rudely butting in, have completely ignored my existence. It's the same problem i had in all my other MMOs before i quit. I'm either being called a troll, for trying to get in on people rping, who are standing around. Or the latter. Which is why I'm more passively searching for people now. I'm tired of the troll card, and ignoring. So i tried to change my tactic, hoping to get more positive responses. I know i have to put myself out there, and i have for years. But i have seen little good come from it. Which is why i was hoping this site would be of some help. I have only gotten PM's from two people from this site, in game. Both were rude to me, so they were blocked. But neither of them were you. If you added me, i would have been asked to confirm. I was never asked, so it wasn't me.