
I play on Balmung, and I will say that I've never lacked for RP ever. That said, I got into an active linkshell early on, with active members among whom there is almost always someone up for RP.
Lacking such a resource, your best bet would be to check out the taverns in the cities as I have yet to see anyone of them NOT having someone RPing, no matter the hour. Most RPers have no issues with an OOC tell asking about joining in, or even trying to get into an RP community- no RPer I've met would turn down the chance to add to the overall RP scene, even if a particular RP is private.
I can't speak to Gilgamesh's situation, though from what I hear it's a similar situation, so regardless of the server you choose, I suspect the RP is there. My personal experience is that, as is often the case in real life with jobs/etc, networking with other RPers (via linkshell, free company, or even here) is the absolute best way to get steady RP. If you can't find anyone for whatever reason in game, look through introductory threads and character wikis, find a few characters who seem interesting on your server of choice, and PM them here to see if they're willing to get something going! That's how I made initial contact with the folks of my current FC and linkshells and I have no regrets! And the best part is that this works no matter your server of choice
Of course... you can always have a character on each, and flip over if you need a break/change of pace/etc from one or another. This is not for everyone, of course, but is always an option.
Lacking such a resource, your best bet would be to check out the taverns in the cities as I have yet to see anyone of them NOT having someone RPing, no matter the hour. Most RPers have no issues with an OOC tell asking about joining in, or even trying to get into an RP community- no RPer I've met would turn down the chance to add to the overall RP scene, even if a particular RP is private.
I can't speak to Gilgamesh's situation, though from what I hear it's a similar situation, so regardless of the server you choose, I suspect the RP is there. My personal experience is that, as is often the case in real life with jobs/etc, networking with other RPers (via linkshell, free company, or even here) is the absolute best way to get steady RP. If you can't find anyone for whatever reason in game, look through introductory threads and character wikis, find a few characters who seem interesting on your server of choice, and PM them here to see if they're willing to get something going! That's how I made initial contact with the folks of my current FC and linkshells and I have no regrets! And the best part is that this works no matter your server of choice

Of course... you can always have a character on each, and flip over if you need a break/change of pace/etc from one or another. This is not for everyone, of course, but is always an option.