I think everything I would have said, has been said by the wonderful Jana.
I've been roleplaying since I was 12, which means I've been at this for....15 years. *winces* Man, I'm old. Now, that's not as long as a lot of other people I know, but from my experiences, the opening post sums up the varieties of sexual situations you'll find in RP. So my hats off to you for that, you've explained it perfectly.
I, personally, don't have an issue roleplaying a sex scene out should my character come into a situation where it happens. I've done it before, and I'll probably do it again, but I definitely agree on several points. It needs to be done tastefully, it's not suppose to be some cheap smut. It needs to be done privately, just like in real life, what you do between the bed sheets needs to stay there: in the bedroom (or the basement, or the kitchen counter, but not in public, you get the idea). It needs to happen naturally, this shouldn't be something that is done between two characters just to do it, it should be a natural evolution of their relationship. And most importantly, all parties need to be comfortable with it. If my partner rather fade to black, then your damn right that's what I'm going to do, because I value the comfort of my roleplaying partner above all else.
I've been roleplaying since I was 12, which means I've been at this for....15 years. *winces* Man, I'm old. Now, that's not as long as a lot of other people I know, but from my experiences, the opening post sums up the varieties of sexual situations you'll find in RP. So my hats off to you for that, you've explained it perfectly.
I, personally, don't have an issue roleplaying a sex scene out should my character come into a situation where it happens. I've done it before, and I'll probably do it again, but I definitely agree on several points. It needs to be done tastefully, it's not suppose to be some cheap smut. It needs to be done privately, just like in real life, what you do between the bed sheets needs to stay there: in the bedroom (or the basement, or the kitchen counter, but not in public, you get the idea). It needs to happen naturally, this shouldn't be something that is done between two characters just to do it, it should be a natural evolution of their relationship. And most importantly, all parties need to be comfortable with it. If my partner rather fade to black, then your damn right that's what I'm going to do, because I value the comfort of my roleplaying partner above all else.
Lillith Cale (Still a work in progress)
