(10-02-2014, 09:04 AM)Aldotsk Wrote: I've had good shares of my experience in RP and ERP for many years and yes I did ERP long time ago and it does not mean I will do it again or change my mind. I was later harassed by it through ICly and then OOCly so I closed myself and decided I won't change my opinions about how I feel in that subject. Again, I'll say it again. If you do it privately is your own chat and it does not concern me. Also I am a bit extremely grumpy because the first thing I've checked this forum after I woke up was the notification with Arma quoting me in bold saying I am ignorant and quick to my judgement and others saying I probably never read romantic novels or watched any scenes. As a matter of fact, what I do in my real life is my business unless I mention it in game. And don't judge me thinking I never had and experience with this before because I did, and it wasn't fun.
It won't change about my opinions, but I did say it like multiple times like in other thread too that if you do it in other private chat way for me not notice it, I don't see what's the problem. People seem to read other lines about what I say, but they seem to miss the main point about what I am trying to say. Is it like my English skill here?
Maybe it's your English but your point is getting lost in the "I blacklist all ERPers." "You shouldn't do it at all." "I don't want to know your ERP circle." which comes off as exceedingly judgemental and I felt it was a bit unfair and harsh.
Ignorant in this context wasn't a negative thing and really just meant lack of knowledge, maybe I should have used naive?
And I said "If you don't believe..." not that you haven't read any fiction. I have in fact come across people who believe any sex, ANY SEX, in fiction means it's smut or porn. ANY. I'm friends with this person. We butt heads about it regularly. I was wondering what your position was because you are making very blanket statements about the narrative benefits of ERP.
(And for the sake of "the internet" this isn't an aggressive post, I'm being very neutral here.)
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