
I remember when I was RPing on this very serious, very strict little private server in Neverwinter Nights, and they were just...draconian about ERP. Â There was this huge stigma if someone was caught, and sometimes DMs would harass the players, etc.
I spent a long time in that mindset. Â You know the one, "How dare someone have sexy fun times in a game I'm playing!"
Somewhere along the way I figured out that what other people do in the privacy of their own tells or Party chats is none of my fucking business.
Not my circus. Â Not my monkeys. Â
People who ERP in public in this game are just asking to be banned, so I find them quite honestly amusing. Â But I have been on private servers where ERP was public, open, and pretty constant.
I have stories - amazing stories - about miss-telled /shouts (in NWN, if you /shout something, it hits the entire server module instead of just the people around you, so...) of the most terrible ERP...
I feel like I'm okay in spite of this. Â My brain didn't rot out and I didn't turn into a nymphomaniac. Â
I spent a long time in that mindset. Â You know the one, "How dare someone have sexy fun times in a game I'm playing!"
Somewhere along the way I figured out that what other people do in the privacy of their own tells or Party chats is none of my fucking business.
Not my circus. Â Not my monkeys. Â

People who ERP in public in this game are just asking to be banned, so I find them quite honestly amusing. Â But I have been on private servers where ERP was public, open, and pretty constant.
I have stories - amazing stories - about miss-telled /shouts (in NWN, if you /shout something, it hits the entire server module instead of just the people around you, so...) of the most terrible ERP...
I feel like I'm okay in spite of this. Â My brain didn't rot out and I didn't turn into a nymphomaniac. Â
