OP's opinion on ERP seems fairly "ew it's bad no!" that on one hand I think the cheating might have been the ERP. On the other hand he could have used the ERP to hookie for real and cheat. Don't know.
Either way, if they were to even remotely have a chance they'd need to have serious discussion with each other and/or couples' therapy. They have polar opposite views on something. If he's cheated then that just adds to it.
Also, there -are- people who actually are ok with their partners looking at porn. Some of them are not. If he's so unwilling to compromise, then the relationship isn't worth caring about. Move on.
Either way, if they were to even remotely have a chance they'd need to have serious discussion with each other and/or couples' therapy. They have polar opposite views on something. If he's cheated then that just adds to it.
Also, there -are- people who actually are ok with their partners looking at porn. Some of them are not. If he's so unwilling to compromise, then the relationship isn't worth caring about. Move on.
