(10-07-2014, 12:07 PM)thatgirl Wrote: My soon-to-be-ex boyfriend have been arguing constantly because he cannot - will not- stop engaging in ERP. He knows I feel it is akin to cheating, but he doesn't feel the same way. According to him, I am stupid and an idiot because I asked him to respect our relationship and stop playing out sexual fantasies online. I'd re
Okay. Â I'm going to be serious about this, too, because I don't think this is a situation that should be made light of. Â Emotional issues aren't funny or cute, even if you don't understand them.
Here's the deal: Â If you are uncomfortable with the situation, then yes, there is a problem. Â He may not see it in the same way as you do, but apparently he also doesn't see your relationship in the same way as you do if he has already cheated on you once.
If he doesn't care enough about you to stop doing something that is causing you emotional anguish, then you can extrapolate from that fact that he doesn't view the relationship with the same kind of importance that you do. Â i.e. Â He is less committed to this thing than you are.
I can't tell you what to do, but if I was in the same situation, I would dump him and move on. Â He's not emotionally invested in your relationship the way you are, and he's never going to change. Â Once a cheater, always a cheater.
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