
Uh. Oh boy. Where to start with this?
1. Why did you not leave him the first time he cheated on you, and with someone online of all things? I'm sorry, but taking that into consideration, none of this should be a shock to you.
2. Not everyone who ERP's is a "pervert." It could very well be something that OOC is relatively non-sexual for him and his partner(s), hence his confusion that it upsets you. Have you sat down with him and had an actual in-depth discussion about why you think it's wrong, and why he thinks it's okay?
3. Imo you shouldn't be with someone who doesn't respect your feelings, especially if he's already crossed the line and cheated once before. Apparently, you've realized that, though, which brings me to my next point!
4. What's the point of this thread? You already seem to have decided to break up with him which is great, but considering that and the fact you felt the need to add unnecessary examples of their ERP, what's the point of this? It seems more like you want to drag your boyfriend (and possibly people who ERP as a whole?) through the mud rather than just wanting advice.
1. Why did you not leave him the first time he cheated on you, and with someone online of all things? I'm sorry, but taking that into consideration, none of this should be a shock to you.
2. Not everyone who ERP's is a "pervert." It could very well be something that OOC is relatively non-sexual for him and his partner(s), hence his confusion that it upsets you. Have you sat down with him and had an actual in-depth discussion about why you think it's wrong, and why he thinks it's okay?
3. Imo you shouldn't be with someone who doesn't respect your feelings, especially if he's already crossed the line and cheated once before. Apparently, you've realized that, though, which brings me to my next point!
4. What's the point of this thread? You already seem to have decided to break up with him which is great, but considering that and the fact you felt the need to add unnecessary examples of their ERP, what's the point of this? It seems more like you want to drag your boyfriend (and possibly people who ERP as a whole?) through the mud rather than just wanting advice.