Let us see if I can form a helpful thought! Since you're talking about tribal Miqo'te and a subligar I'm hazarding a guess that it might be the set that's based around the Forgotten Springs tribe huntresses! Feel free to correct me if I'm wrong. I honestly don't think that's a terrible set. I mean yes it's revealing, don't get me wrong there, and I know it's not practical but there is an example in game of a tribe who does wear such a set. Them coming into Ul'dah as far as I know is almost non existent, from what I can tell most tribal Miqo'te try to avoid the cities as much as they can, so of course one coming in is going to get looks! Now I can understand the tiring aspect of having someone point it out but I don't think they're doing it OOCly unless they're sending you tells along with it.
IC disdain doesn't always equal OOC disdain, for example my main had a friend who was scantily clad a lot and of course it made her blush to high heavens and wish she could get them to put clothes on but OOCly I don't have a problem with it. Wear what you like, if you worked to get the gear and you like it then I think you should be able to use it. Provided you're not wearing something completely lore breaking or something of that nature, which a subligar set is not. You could even use it as a point of tension for her, I assume if she's coming into the city she's getting a bit more used to life there, maybe later down the road it could be a huge step for her to try and fit in by discarding it when she goes to the city, OR it could be a thing she lifts her chin about because it's her tribal heritage and they just have to deal with it. Spin the IC disdain into something fun or poignant for the character and remember not to assume they have an OOC problem with it unless they bring it up OOC. If they do then calmly explain, which is all you can do, and then go from there. B-list if necessary, etc.
(I hope that made sense.)
IC disdain doesn't always equal OOC disdain, for example my main had a friend who was scantily clad a lot and of course it made her blush to high heavens and wish she could get them to put clothes on but OOCly I don't have a problem with it. Wear what you like, if you worked to get the gear and you like it then I think you should be able to use it. Provided you're not wearing something completely lore breaking or something of that nature, which a subligar set is not. You could even use it as a point of tension for her, I assume if she's coming into the city she's getting a bit more used to life there, maybe later down the road it could be a huge step for her to try and fit in by discarding it when she goes to the city, OR it could be a thing she lifts her chin about because it's her tribal heritage and they just have to deal with it. Spin the IC disdain into something fun or poignant for the character and remember not to assume they have an OOC problem with it unless they bring it up OOC. If they do then calmly explain, which is all you can do, and then go from there. B-list if necessary, etc.
(I hope that made sense.)
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