(12-02-2014, 02:06 PM)Eleni Wrote:Don't let it get you down(12-02-2014, 01:45 PM)Melodia Wrote: Thank you for your input all.
I...think some of this thread actually made me more depressed, if that's possible? @_@
Woe be to me!! I have failed!! Failed to cheer you up!!Â
*buries self in quilt and curses self*
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That aside, lighten up, chill, relax. 'Tis nothing. Do you want chocolate? I have a Galaxy bar within arm's length.
And take the candy!I've gone through the same thing as you, Mel. Though it hasn't happened to me recently (last person I think was near the beginning of the summer), I just try to take it in stride. Especially if you ask someone to do something and they're like 'nah, don't feel like it', then do it with someone else, best to shake it off. Or, hell, even ask for clarification. If they blatantly ignore you at that point, best to chug forward.
But usually best to ask straight up. I'll admit to being oversensitive in some areas so I usually ask bluntly just to see. And if asking bluntly gets you no where or they don't even respond, etc. then focus on those that give you the time of day
But also keep in mind sometimes people get in a weird mood and semi isolate themselves with one or two people that help them the best with whatever they're going through personally. In those instances, it's never anything personal unless said otherwise.
