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You reap what you sow.
You want things to change ? So stop placing yourself as a victim and stop saying that people are bullying you and such a thing. Those people aren't bullying you. They are reacting to some things you did to them and mostly ignoring you.
Constantly whining on the board, complaining about them and sometimes being overly rude is only making three things :
- Irritating those you had some bad relations with and reinforcing their attitude.
- Annoying some that don't know you who will see you as "this person who is sometimes rude and placing themselves as a victim constantly"
- Raising pity over some others, which isn't really a good thing at all (also they might be wary at the same time).
So change your attitude and keep your relationship with others private rather than exhibiting those as you are doing since a while.
Fix the problem rather than placing yourself as a victim and making things worse.
Rather than thinking that a lot of people are mean to you without any reason, try to see what you might have done which lead to this. There is no way that suddenly a part of the community aren't nice to you without you being responsible of anything and if you have an objective look on the situation, you will notice that the common denominator in each is yourself.
You want things to change ? So stop placing yourself as a victim and stop saying that people are bullying you and such a thing. Those people aren't bullying you. They are reacting to some things you did to them and mostly ignoring you.
Constantly whining on the board, complaining about them and sometimes being overly rude is only making three things :
- Irritating those you had some bad relations with and reinforcing their attitude.
- Annoying some that don't know you who will see you as "this person who is sometimes rude and placing themselves as a victim constantly"
- Raising pity over some others, which isn't really a good thing at all (also they might be wary at the same time).
So change your attitude and keep your relationship with others private rather than exhibiting those as you are doing since a while.
Fix the problem rather than placing yourself as a victim and making things worse.
Rather than thinking that a lot of people are mean to you without any reason, try to see what you might have done which lead to this. There is no way that suddenly a part of the community aren't nice to you without you being responsible of anything and if you have an objective look on the situation, you will notice that the common denominator in each is yourself.
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