
(12-25-2014, 04:22 PM)Ckayah Polaali Wrote:(12-24-2014, 04:24 PM)Faye Wrote:(12-24-2014, 04:07 PM)Edvyn Wrote: is it wrong to find an ethical problem in genuine sexualities/sexual practices being exploited by horny nerds looking for cheap imaginary sex?
Sort of? It's sleazy, for sure, and it's obviously not okay if they're trying to force/pressure/trick people into doing sexual things with them.
Late comment, but hey, it's Christmas!
I think the main point here in what Faye is saying - not to put words in your mouth Faye - is it's not okay for people to force/pressure/trick people into doing anything, really. I recognize that it probably happens more around sex than it does around, say, coil, but it's not exclusive to sex and it's equally not okay anywhere.
And just for me: I don't particularly have a problem with people exploiting genuine sexualities or practices. Maybe they're in the closet about something and this is their only outlet. Maybe they're just curious. Maybe they just want to get their rocks off. I don't know, and I don't care. So long as it's consensual, in my opinion, they're golden.
Merry Christmas, everyone!
Exactly! Sexual activities are obviously one of the more severe and taboo things to apply it to, but trying to force or deceive someone into anything is a no-no. ERP in itself is not bad--forcing it on people is. But not all ERP, however tasteless someone may find it or certain kinds of it, is forced or underhanded.