(02-06-2015, 01:01 PM)Dimona Wrote:(02-06-2015, 12:54 PM)Gegenji Wrote: And, being the eternal worrier I am, I sometimes wonder if I'm pushing too far into the limelight.I think if you're worried or thinking you might be pushy with your character, you are probably fine. Â Some people I don't think are even cognizent of this.
That would make it difficult to identify and correct though, wouldn't it? How would you know you're doing something wrong if you're not even aware you're doing it? Then you get those situations where people call you out or, god forbid, try to punish you for doing something you're not even aware you're doing. My sister got booted from a FC because apparently a few folks didn't like the tone with which she talked to them, and she (and I) were horribly confused when we logged on and she had been booted from it.
... Though, I suppose that just reinforces how important communication is. As is, try talking to people if they're doing something you're not comfortable with. It could easily be the case that they're not even aware they're doing it.
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