(02-09-2015, 10:09 PM)A'mon Vespar Wrote:(02-09-2015, 10:04 PM)Kinono Wrote:(02-09-2015, 06:46 PM)A'mon Vespar Wrote: Just to help pull this back into topic, I haven't read all the replies yet, but this boundary line referring to relationships or other things?
Everything, really. Relationships are the biggie, but it's definitely not unheard of for IC slights/arguments to be taken OoCly.
How odd, I can understand the lines of a romance/erp blurring the lines, but never IC arguments.
Sadly, I'll totally admit to having previously acted coldly to people ICly who I did not like OoCly. It wasn't so much about bleed, I don't think, more just... "I want this social interaction to be over with." That could be argued, obviously, but that's just my own experience. I try not to do that anymore, because I know it comes off as extremely childish as opposed to just excusing myself and leaving.
Typically if there's IC drama a-stirrin', it's with people who are familiar with me and know that what happens IC changes nothing OoCly, hell, I'll probably poke fun at it myself later. If something does happen with someone who I'm not as familiar with, I try to send them some confirmatory tell at some point during or after thanking them for the RP and apologizing for my character's action so they know there's no hard feelings. Most people are totally okay with it.
