(02-09-2015, 10:52 PM)A Ashe Wrote: Admittedly it makes me uncomfortable when I try to establish something OOC (i.e. a boundary) that is completely ignored. Â When that happens I will just tend to write that person out as someone who isn't mature enough to handle two separate identities (their own and their character). Â
It's embarrassing how much this has happened to me. I was worried I wasn't being clear or forceful enough at first but it eventually got to the point where I accepted that many people, unfortunately, don't want to listen.Â
When I was first trying to branch out more, I went to the Quicksand, as many are likely to, to try to meet new people. So many times I met people only interested in one thing and every time I'd state OoCly "I don't want this thing for this reason and this reason and this reason."
Not a one of those people stopped until I started ignoring them or just left.
Kino doesn't go to the Quicksand anymore.
