(02-22-2015, 04:50 PM)Presidio Wrote: This thread is mostly telling the people who have been neglected what they've done to deserve it (whether that's intentional or not, if you read the first page it's kind of disturbing). In suggesting moving to a different hub, I'm just trying to think of suggestions/changes we can make that don't amount to putting all of the blame on the people who feel excluded.Because telling people how these types of things may happen, not out of maliciousness but because of carelessness on the other RPers' fault or their not noticing, is putting blame on someone.
That seems like a good way to turn off a lot of potential RPers and shrink the community.
Right.
No one said they were at fault or that they deserved it. They're suggestions of your-mileage-may-vary but these may be reasons why and how can we -all- take steps to avoid it.