That's a really unfair and uncharitable interpretation!
 Like many people in this thread I was just trying to offer advice that we found helpful trying to overcome the same thing you are.  Beleive it or not must of us have been through the same thing!  That's not casting blame, it's trying to be helpful.  If that's not what you want then I can't really offer anything! ^^
 Like many people in this thread I was just trying to offer advice that we found helpful trying to overcome the same thing you are.  Beleive it or not must of us have been through the same thing!  That's not casting blame, it's trying to be helpful.  If that's not what you want then I can't really offer anything! ^^