Technically, arguments are not even supposed to be a negative thing. They are the use of proper reasoning, examples and logic etc. to convince the other person of your viewpoint so when we associate to argument as a negative thing, it's actually not.Â
That said, it's fine to debate or argue or whatever and all, but I personally don't. I tend to avoid them. Why? Because everyone has their own opinions and stuff, and I respect everyone and their views and opinions. If someone says, oh, I like X, I say, oh, that's good. No need for me to say I don't like X because of reason 1, 2 and 3.Â
Plus, sometimes, even if you don't want to, you turn negative or aggressive, unwillingly and unknowingly. And even if you're cool and calm, the other person might not perceive you as such, because well, it's a debate/argument, and lets admit it, even though it's not supposed to be a negative thing, that's how most view it.Â
Also, respect other people. If they feel uncomfortable, you've got plenty more means to continue your discussion elsewhere, even if your discussion is completely calm and poised.Â
There you have it. My two gil.
That said, it's fine to debate or argue or whatever and all, but I personally don't. I tend to avoid them. Why? Because everyone has their own opinions and stuff, and I respect everyone and their views and opinions. If someone says, oh, I like X, I say, oh, that's good. No need for me to say I don't like X because of reason 1, 2 and 3.Â
Plus, sometimes, even if you don't want to, you turn negative or aggressive, unwillingly and unknowingly. And even if you're cool and calm, the other person might not perceive you as such, because well, it's a debate/argument, and lets admit it, even though it's not supposed to be a negative thing, that's how most view it.Â
Also, respect other people. If they feel uncomfortable, you've got plenty more means to continue your discussion elsewhere, even if your discussion is completely calm and poised.Â
There you have it. My two gil.
