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Cliques and RP Etiquette
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RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette |
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02-23-2015, 11:32 AM
(02-23-2015, 05:48 AM)Berrod Armstrong Wrote:
(02-23-2015, 03:16 AM)Tiergan Wrote: I personally would love to see the Adventurer guilds (or the Bismark) get some more use in other cities.  It's kind of a bummer when my non-Ul'dahn alts have to head to Ul'dah for the brunt of most RP.
I believe part of solving this problem lies in -not- heading to Ul'Dah. Stay in the other places, emote around, ask a couple friends to join, let it spread!

Personally I feel the opposite. I started on Balmung in Gridania (Archer/Conjurer RPer, yo!), and found so little RP around there as to make it practically nonexistent. It wasn't until I went to Ul'dah that I really found any at all.

I've mentioned this before, but I'll do it again: The #1 technique I use to find RP is simply to send cold tells to people. If I'm bored and want RP, I'll sit somewhere where there are a lot of RPers (The Quicksand, the main drag of Ul'dah, at the aetheryte plaza, etc) and simply examine people. I'll look for people walking (they're almost always RPers out trolling for RP), or people with some sort of RPish tag in their search info.

And then I'll send them a tell.

"Hi! I see you're a roleplayer! What sort of RP are you looking for?"

Something short and simple. I don't ask for RP - not in that first tell. Instead, I'm just asking what they like. Whoever they are, they're already doing something - they're going to turn in a quest, or looking for RP themselves, or whatever. If I ask for RP right off the bat, then I'm immediately trying to pull them away from whatever that is. Why should they? They don't know me. Asking about what they like, though, takes an interest in them, and tries to start a conversation that is about you listening to them. It's not 100% successful, of course. Lots of people are too shy or too busy or not interested or simply afk. But that's okay, because lots of people will respond to tell you about their RP. Then you can have a conversation about that: What do they like, what do you like, how might your characters run into each other. You're finding common ground, and that often flows naturally into actually RPing together.
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Cliques and RP Etiquette - by sforze - 02-21-2015, 06:58 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Cliodhna Eoghan - 02-21-2015, 07:05 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Y'lani - 02-21-2015, 07:11 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Unnamed Mercenary - 02-21-2015, 07:12 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Magellan - 02-21-2015, 07:12 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Tiergan - 02-21-2015, 07:35 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Hyakki - 02-22-2015, 08:23 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Magellan - 02-22-2015, 01:06 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Tiergan - 02-22-2015, 02:43 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Chris Ganale - 02-21-2015, 07:43 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Tiergan - 02-22-2015, 07:11 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Alothia - 02-21-2015, 07:49 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Nebbs - 02-21-2015, 08:00 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Khadan - 02-21-2015, 08:01 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by sforze - 02-21-2015, 08:01 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Knight Kat - 02-21-2015, 08:07 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Roen - 02-21-2015, 08:13 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by sforze - 02-21-2015, 08:20 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Magellan - 02-21-2015, 08:51 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by SicketySix - 02-21-2015, 08:34 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Dasair - 02-21-2015, 08:41 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Kurt S. - 02-21-2015, 08:44 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by K'nahli - 02-21-2015, 09:05 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by sforze - 02-21-2015, 09:29 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by K'nahli - 02-21-2015, 09:40 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Kurt S. - 02-21-2015, 09:29 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Kage - 02-21-2015, 09:48 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Kage - 02-22-2015, 03:58 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Aya - 02-21-2015, 09:48 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Volk - 02-21-2015, 09:53 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by sforze - 02-21-2015, 10:04 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by K'nahli - 02-21-2015, 10:14 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by TheBlob - 02-21-2015, 10:44 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by sforze - 02-21-2015, 10:58 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Gaspard - 02-21-2015, 10:53 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Nara'to - 02-22-2015, 03:29 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Cato - 02-22-2015, 04:11 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Aya - 02-22-2015, 04:22 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Seye Qhesu - 02-22-2015, 04:35 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by FreelanceWizard - 02-22-2015, 04:29 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Cato - 02-22-2015, 04:41 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Rosamund - 02-22-2015, 09:08 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Hihimi - 02-22-2015, 10:41 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Gaspard - 02-22-2015, 02:49 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Kirann - 02-22-2015, 12:32 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by PandaSong - 02-22-2015, 01:06 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Verranicus - 02-22-2015, 01:47 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by IvikBlack - 02-22-2015, 02:29 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Verranicus - 02-22-2015, 02:45 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by TheLastCandle - 02-22-2015, 02:45 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Tiergan - 02-22-2015, 03:46 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Edvyn - 02-22-2015, 03:57 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by sforze - 02-22-2015, 03:06 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Kellach Woods - 02-22-2015, 03:40 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Edvyn - 02-22-2015, 03:23 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by IvikBlack - 02-22-2015, 03:57 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Edvyn - 02-22-2015, 04:06 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Aya - 02-22-2015, 04:17 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Val - 02-22-2015, 04:23 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Kellach Woods - 02-22-2015, 04:29 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Edvyn - 02-22-2015, 04:34 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Kage - 02-22-2015, 04:45 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Val - 02-22-2015, 05:33 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Kage - 02-22-2015, 05:37 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Val - 02-22-2015, 05:40 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Aya - 02-22-2015, 04:38 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Aya - 02-22-2015, 04:42 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by IvikBlack - 02-22-2015, 04:50 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Kage - 02-22-2015, 04:55 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by IvikBlack - 02-22-2015, 04:59 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Kage - 02-22-2015, 05:07 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Gaspard - 02-22-2015, 05:40 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by sforze - 02-22-2015, 10:10 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Gaspard - 02-22-2015, 10:50 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Aya - 02-22-2015, 05:02 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Kinono - 02-22-2015, 05:04 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Aya - 02-22-2015, 05:06 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by IvikBlack - 02-22-2015, 05:13 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Kirann - 02-22-2015, 05:44 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by sforze - 02-22-2015, 05:26 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Kage - 02-22-2015, 05:29 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Aya - 02-22-2015, 06:53 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Tiergan - 02-22-2015, 07:01 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Kage - 02-22-2015, 07:43 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Cato - 02-22-2015, 10:34 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Alothia - 02-22-2015, 10:39 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Tiergan - 02-22-2015, 10:50 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Alothia - 02-22-2015, 11:06 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by IvikBlack - 02-22-2015, 10:56 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Gaspard - 02-22-2015, 11:03 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by sforze - 02-22-2015, 11:07 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by IvikBlack - 02-22-2015, 11:07 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Gone. - 02-22-2015, 11:08 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Aya - 02-22-2015, 11:17 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by IvikBlack - 02-22-2015, 11:45 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by sforze - 02-22-2015, 11:45 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Tiergan - 02-23-2015, 02:49 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Val - 02-23-2015, 03:01 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Tiergan - 02-23-2015, 03:16 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Chris Ganale - 02-23-2015, 03:18 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Val - 02-23-2015, 03:19 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Rosamund - 02-23-2015, 05:45 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Berrod Armstrong - 02-23-2015, 05:48 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Cliodhna Eoghan - 02-23-2015, 08:44 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by C'kayah Polaali - 02-23-2015, 11:32 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by sforze - 02-23-2015, 03:26 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Tiergan - 02-23-2015, 05:50 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Klynzahr - 02-24-2015, 02:44 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Gurren Dai - 02-24-2015, 04:05 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Chris Ganale - 02-23-2015, 05:58 PM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Kage - 02-23-2015, 03:26 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by sforze - 02-23-2015, 04:10 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Parvacake - 02-23-2015, 03:27 AM
RE: Cliques and RP Etiquette - by Kage - 02-23-2015, 11:44 AM

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