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RE: Elitism and You: An Attempt at Polite Discourse: ilvl125+ Only, Must Link Achievement |
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03-10-2015, 08:15 AM
(This post was last modified: 03-10-2015, 08:17 AM by Yssen.)
elitism - noun. the advocacy or existence of an elite as a dominating element in a system or society.
    - the attitude or behavior of a person who regard themselves as belonging to an elite.

I simply love definitions, they can clarify so much. Time to delve into this a little.

Elitism as a concept is not, by definition, what one would call inherently a bad thing. Are there people who are better an doing "x" than others? Absolutely, it is a simple fact of life and it comes with the territory pretty much everywhere. Inherently, there is nothing wrong with this, a group of people come together to do something and each one does what they the thing they do best. Awesome sauce, superior product of endeavor achieved. 

The problem lies in that second part of the definition. Ones behavior (meaning yours) because they (meaning you) regard themselves as belonging to an elite (group, like minded point of view, skill level, what ever the heck). In short, the problem starts when a person starts treating people as something lesser than themselves. They do this generally because they hold themselves to be more than that person because of "x". What is "x"? Doesn't matter. This is not about "x". This is about how you as a person treat other people because of whatever your "x" is. That is the defining/vector problem with "elitism". Attitude.

You are free to act as you wish based on your personal "x" that makes you elite. However, it is generally accepted by most that if you are excluding people, talking down to people, or generally treating people as lesser because of your "x" (your arbitrary and only signifcant to you "x") you are making what most would refer to as a "dick move". You can seek to justify the behavior however you please, but when you get right down to the nity gritty of it. The chewy fun truthful center of it all. Whatever justification you choose, you are still treating someone (or someones) as lesser than you, and I cannot think of any point ever where that has been a good thing. No one likes to be excluded. No one likes to feel lesser. You wouldn't like done to you. Heck, most of us have probably felt how much it stings when it is done to us. So don't do it. Failing that, accept the nitty gritty of how your attitude is making you act and accept how others will judge you based on those acts. Whether they are good or bad.

To wrap this up, I place a with a super nerdy quote at the bottom. Because it relates to the matter at hand, and is great food for thought. Have a great day, all. Big Grin

"There is right and there is wrong in the Universe. The distinction between them is not hard to make. Do right by all." - Superman, Kingdom Come.
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Elitism and You: An Attempt at Polite Discourse: ilvl125+ Only, Must Link Achievement - by Warren Castille - 03-09-2015, 08:03 AM
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RE: Elitism and You: An Attempt at Polite Discourse: ilvl125+ Only, Must Link Achievement - by Qhora Bajihri - 03-09-2015, 10:06 AM
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RE: Elitism and You: An Attempt at Polite Discourse: ilvl125+ Only, Must Link Achievement - by Kage - 03-09-2015, 08:21 AM
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RE: Elitism and You: An Attempt at Polite Discourse: ilvl125+ Only, Must Link Achievement - by Warren Castille - 03-09-2015, 08:30 AM
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