
Yup, when I'm being all active I regularly delete the oldest of my messages, except ones with information I might need (there's an archive feature?!). What Warren says is true, and it's the same thing I've been telling you: private, assertive communication is a healthy thing to do here. I know it's a pain, because you want to just do one lump round in a thread and have done, but nothing will ever beat one-on-one for cutting through misunderstandings. Not that one-on-one solves everything (my very long series of attempts to help my mother and sister understand where I'm coming from attests to that!), but it will definitely aid here.
And, I mean, think of it this way: you've already tried this route before. It isn't working for you, man. Time to try something else.
<3s and hugs.
And, I mean, think of it this way: you've already tried this route before. It isn't working for you, man. Time to try something else.
<3s and hugs.