There are those kind of people who take IC issues to OOC issues and make it into a drama.
But there are those kind of people who take IC issues into OOC issues, then make it into more than just a drama - by spreading unnecessary rumors and then make it more than just a simple deal. I've had several people who message me OOCly who tried to approach me awkwardly or weirdly and asked me if I was "okay" with eRP. I said no, and when people also confess to me, I still say no. I usually just change subjects, and if they start to aggravate me, I just tell them to just take a break between us. I don't blacklist them, and I don't witch hunt them. Whatever happened between me and that person is just the two of us.
With that all said, I've shared my awkward situations with people ICly and OOCly before and even in real life. So I clearly understand when others do that to me. I just bluntly tell them that they need to speak casually. In the end, I still might say no to whatever that person asked me to do with them. :p
If RP goes in a bad direction, I plan out and try to make a choice to see the alternative. If someone didn't PM me, then I take it as they don't intend to make it into OOC drama. But if I see myself in a position where I don't have any alternative options for myself, then I just end up telling the person OOCly to see what can be done to fix it. I don't get angry first, (I did several times on some ends when people make huge mistakes and didn't intend to ask me about anything).
tldr, if you feel uncomfortable, then you just tell the person that you do feel uncomfortable in roleplaying or talking with him/her. If they still bother you, then you give them a warning or block them by blacklisting.
But there are those kind of people who take IC issues into OOC issues, then make it into more than just a drama - by spreading unnecessary rumors and then make it more than just a simple deal. I've had several people who message me OOCly who tried to approach me awkwardly or weirdly and asked me if I was "okay" with eRP. I said no, and when people also confess to me, I still say no. I usually just change subjects, and if they start to aggravate me, I just tell them to just take a break between us. I don't blacklist them, and I don't witch hunt them. Whatever happened between me and that person is just the two of us.
With that all said, I've shared my awkward situations with people ICly and OOCly before and even in real life. So I clearly understand when others do that to me. I just bluntly tell them that they need to speak casually. In the end, I still might say no to whatever that person asked me to do with them. :p
If RP goes in a bad direction, I plan out and try to make a choice to see the alternative. If someone didn't PM me, then I take it as they don't intend to make it into OOC drama. But if I see myself in a position where I don't have any alternative options for myself, then I just end up telling the person OOCly to see what can be done to fix it. I don't get angry first, (I did several times on some ends when people make huge mistakes and didn't intend to ask me about anything).
tldr, if you feel uncomfortable, then you just tell the person that you do feel uncomfortable in roleplaying or talking with him/her. If they still bother you, then you give them a warning or block them by blacklisting.
