(04-17-2015, 09:01 PM)Unnamed Mercenary Wrote: ...I've actually seen a lot more of this happen among non-ERPers than anyone I've known to engage in ERP. I've seen friends get completely ousted for "reasons" without any proof, and seen friends of that friend stop because of tumblr posts gone wild.
Ultimately, it comes down to confronting the person. Does the [potentially] emotionally abusive person know what they're doing? Are they aware of it? Is there malicious intent? I won't make judgements based on hearsay anymore because I've seen accusations come from every direction, in cases where sometimes the accused was innocent.
Communication's an important tool in these things. It can make or break all relationships.
Oh, you def. see it almost anywhere. Â And there's perfectly normal ways of dealing and mediating it outside of the context we're talking, for sure.
In the context of sexual anything, though, it's a seriously terrible thing.
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