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RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity |
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04-23-2015, 09:49 AM
I am skeptical about this topic, given how the rant thread became a colossal waste of time.

However, I am yet again the example against the notion that cliques, popularity, etc are worthy of being demonized. As such, I feel I should at least sound off once on this subject. Understand, dear reader, that because of yesterday's nonsense, even I am reluctant to engage in discussions at this point and I LOVE to talk. At any rate, on to the point.


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More Hatter RamblingsI am a Time Lord around here. I jump from server to server willy nilly because I can and I enjoy seeing new things happening. Whenever someone from a non-balmung world pops up with a "HAY, WE RP OVER HERE" post, I hop in my big blue police box and twirl my way over there to check it out. I make a few friends, meet interesting people and eventually go off on my merry way again to check out the next budding hub or to hang out with some folks back on Balmung and even Gilgamesh. I have no clique. I possibly have some semblance of popularity or notoriety depending upon how one perceives this merry ole hat of mine. I -know- many of you in one form or another, through various mediums of communication surrounding the game itself.

I told no one that I played Zealous Oak, except for my FCmates on Balmung in The Red Wings when I mentioned my RPC name. Even Warren was like "ZOMG, I had no idea that was you!" and that's how I roll because my clique is anyone with the word "roleplayer" in their description. That's how most of us are, even those "accused" of that most hated word: Elitism.

In fact, the OP of this thread and I go way back, when I played Lukas Valenwood in HoD. We even stood on opposite sides of drama at one point and I took to heart a breach of her trust and confidence when that happened. Even though we only knew each other through the game, standing against her at that time made me feel very low. So low, in fact, that I went out of my way to swallow my pride and apologize. In time, I jumped into my blue box and wandered off to a new dimension as is my way and when I came back to Balmung, I immediately requested to return to HoD. I was denied and I understood why, so no hard feelings were involved. To this day, my personal feelings about Faye and HoD are joyful ones. We're roleplayers and that makes us part of a clique, no matter what.

Now, because I flit about from world to world like a caffeinated gnat, my time spent is separated into small chunks (until lately, when I settled in on Balmung again). Am I ignoring people? Am I favoring one person or a group over another? YES, actually. I am. And if that was your platform for hating on me, I would readily agree with you. I am favoring whoever I'm with at that specific moment over anyone else simply because I'm having a good time ROLEPLAYING.

My concern with this recent outcry of popularity, cliquishness, etc, and the apparent position that everyone should include everyone else at every moment of every day is that it's exhaustingly impossible to please everyone and no one should be expected to try. Last night, five things happened in my hour and a half of RP. Note: ONE HOUR AND THIRTY MINUTES IS ALL I HAD TO ROLEPLAY. These are the things that happened:

* Oak had a brief conversation with Cliodhna.
* Oak was approached by Artemis Newton and Edda Vincents. Artemis bought him a drink.
* Lynx ran up and hugged Oak then ran away.
* John Waterstrike avoided Oak seeing him, because he didn't want to be questioned about his injuries. 
*Lucina Mercer approached Oak for help, overhearing that he was a doctor.

This is how I handled it.
*Oak talked to Clio for awhile.
*Oak greeted Artemis and Edda, accepted the drink and invited Artemis to a hang out for healers he was preparing.
*Oak was utterly perplexed by the random hug.
*Oak had no knowledge of John's presence.
*When approached by someone with a medical need, Oak excused himself and went with Lucina to discuss it.

Could I have chased Lynx down for an explanation? Sure. That was a missed/ignored RP opportunity. No harm was meant by it. Oak wouldn't have chased the guy down. Oak could have meta'd noticing John and chased him down too. Another missed/ignored RP opportunity. Why? Because other things were happening that had the character's immediate attention.

When Lucina approached, Oak could have said "I'm sorry, I'm off duty" and dismissed her. The character doesn't think that way though, so I went with the direction he would go and missed out on further RP with Edda and Clio.


To summarize my ramblings as directly as possible:

1> STOP ASSUMING PEOPLE ARE IGNORING YOU OR BEING ELITIST. UNDERSTAND THAT THEY HAVE THE RIGHT TO THEIR OWN AGENDA AND THEIR CHARACTER'S PERSONAL CHOICES ON WHO THEY ASSOCIATE WITH.

2> IF YOUR CHARACTER IS PASSIVE, EXPECT TO BE PASSED OVER IN LARGE RP SCENES OR EVENTS. THERE IS A -LOT- OF STUFF GOING ON AND IT IS UNFAIR TO EXPECT EVERYONE TO NOTICE YOU HIDING IN THE CORNER.

3> DO NOT ASSUME THAT YOUR PARTICULAR CHARACTER CONCEPT WILL BE WIDELY ACCEPTED BY EVERYONE AROUND YOU. EVERYONE HAS THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE, JUST LIKE YOU, HOW TO PLAY, WHO TO PLAY WITH, AND WHAT IS ENJOYABLE. RESPECT EACH OTHER'S PERSONAL SPACE AND CHERISH THE ONES WHO THINK LIKE YOU, FEEL LIKE YOU, AND ACCEPT YOUR CONCEPT. THEY -ARE- OUT THERE, YOU -WILL- FIND THEM. CHILLAX.

4> CLIQUES EXIST, DEAL WITH IT. A FREE COMPANY IS A CLIQUE. IT'S EMBEDDED IN THE GAME ITSELF. YOUR JOB IS A CLIQUE, YOUR CLASS IN SCHOOL IS A CLIQUE AND HAS SMALLER CLIQUES IN IT. IT IS IN THE DEFINITION OF THE TERM, PEOPLE. YOU ARE ALL PART OF AT LEAST 1 CLIQUE.

5> I LOVE MY COMMUNITY AND I LOVE ROLEPLAYING. THAT MEANS I LOVE YOU, YOU COLLECTION OF OBNOXIOUS, STUBBORN, ANNOYING ARSEHOLES. YOU ARE ALL POPULAR TO ME BECAUSE YOU ARE MY PEOPLE.

*coughs* Right then.

Cheers!

 -Black Hat

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Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Faye - 04-22-2015, 10:14 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Desu Nee - 04-22-2015, 10:32 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Faye - 04-22-2015, 10:35 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Tiergan - 04-23-2015, 12:37 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Faye - 04-23-2015, 01:30 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Magellan - 04-23-2015, 02:18 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Meena - 04-23-2015, 02:24 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Faye - 04-23-2015, 02:46 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by V'aleera - 04-23-2015, 03:02 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Val - 04-23-2015, 02:41 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by g0ne - 04-23-2015, 02:55 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Faye - 04-23-2015, 02:58 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Kasumi Gakunin - 04-23-2015, 02:57 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Meena - 04-23-2015, 03:00 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Val - 04-23-2015, 03:05 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Faye - 04-23-2015, 03:05 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Maril - 04-23-2015, 03:05 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Faye - 04-23-2015, 03:14 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Ludivine Goultard - 04-23-2015, 04:02 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by OttoVann - 04-23-2015, 04:11 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Faye - 04-23-2015, 04:19 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by OttoVann - 04-23-2015, 12:17 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Gegenji - 04-23-2015, 12:19 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Nebbs - 04-23-2015, 04:55 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by SicketySix - 04-23-2015, 08:14 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Oscare - 04-23-2015, 08:27 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Alothia - 04-23-2015, 08:47 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by g0ne - 04-23-2015, 09:19 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Sophia_Grave - 04-23-2015, 09:29 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by No Longer Exists - 04-23-2015, 09:49 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Hammersmith - 04-23-2015, 09:58 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Kage - 04-23-2015, 10:02 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by SicketySix - 04-23-2015, 10:05 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by No Longer Exists - 04-23-2015, 10:13 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by No Longer Exists - 04-23-2015, 10:15 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by SicketySix - 04-23-2015, 10:32 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by No Longer Exists - 04-23-2015, 10:41 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by SicketySix - 04-23-2015, 10:49 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by No Longer Exists - 04-23-2015, 11:00 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by SicketySix - 04-23-2015, 11:28 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Nebbs - 04-23-2015, 10:16 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by No Longer Exists - 04-23-2015, 10:06 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Gegenji - 04-23-2015, 10:08 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Warren Castille - 04-23-2015, 10:07 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Kage - 04-23-2015, 10:13 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Alothia - 04-23-2015, 10:19 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Nebbs - 04-23-2015, 10:25 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Gegenji - 04-23-2015, 10:19 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by g0ne - 04-23-2015, 10:34 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Cest - 04-23-2015, 10:42 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Unnamed Mercenary - 04-23-2015, 11:06 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Gegenji - 04-23-2015, 10:56 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Iex - 04-23-2015, 11:04 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by FreelanceWizard - 04-23-2015, 11:08 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Kage - 04-23-2015, 11:15 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Nebbs - 04-23-2015, 11:19 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Kage - 04-23-2015, 11:20 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by No Longer Exists - 04-23-2015, 11:27 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by SicketySix - 04-23-2015, 11:29 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by ArmachiA - 04-23-2015, 11:30 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Askier - 04-23-2015, 12:20 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Kage - 04-23-2015, 11:40 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Cato - 04-23-2015, 11:50 AM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Verad - 04-23-2015, 12:53 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Dasair - 04-23-2015, 12:12 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Aya - 04-23-2015, 12:20 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Dasair - 04-23-2015, 04:12 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Aya - 04-23-2015, 05:23 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Nebbs - 04-23-2015, 05:29 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Dasair - 04-23-2015, 06:39 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Erik Mynhier - 04-23-2015, 05:53 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by ArmachiA - 04-23-2015, 12:37 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Melkire - 04-23-2015, 12:50 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by ArmachiA - 04-23-2015, 01:01 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Melkire - 04-23-2015, 01:12 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Aduu Avagnar - 04-23-2015, 01:11 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by ArmachiA - 04-23-2015, 01:16 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Zhavi - 04-23-2015, 01:27 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Celsius - 04-23-2015, 01:57 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Zhavi - 04-23-2015, 02:08 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Celsius - 04-23-2015, 02:09 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by SunTzu7 - 04-23-2015, 02:38 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Max - 04-23-2015, 02:54 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Qhora Bajihri - 04-23-2015, 04:25 PM
RE: Cliques, Popularity, and Positivity - by Kage - 04-23-2015, 05:44 PM

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