The tough love answer.. get to Balmung.
Check out this topic where someone asked a similar question, there was a lot of views and advice you would find useful.
http://ffxiv-roleplayers.com/showthread.php?tid=11271
Check out this topic where someone asked a similar question, there was a lot of views and advice you would find useful.
http://ffxiv-roleplayers.com/showthread.php?tid=11271
Char:Â [Nebula Stardancer] Â FC: [East Eerie Trading Co]
Link Shells: [Hugs & Cakes] Â [Witches' Wyrd Web]