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05-13-2015, 10:08 AM
(05-13-2015, 09:55 AM)Red Coat Cat Wrote:
(05-13-2015, 09:26 AM)OttoVann Wrote: Hell yeah I'm bashing people who go on tumblr and act like savages . . .

Whats your point?  That they somehow have equal footing compared to me?  Please.  Why are you trying to conflate me with them?
Well. Yes. You just called them savages. 

From my perspective, no matter what they said, you just made yourself like them by demeaning them with that insulting word.

They are humans just like you and me. And certainly not agreeing with them is allowed. But to attack back just keeps the cycle going.

What about when a given person continues a cycle with no other initiative? When they choose to be rude only for the sake of hurting others, threatening to "release a bunch of shit on [this] person"?

Yelling back at them isn't the best way to counter it. In fact, I agree that it would likely make things worse. ...but I do think abusive behavior needs to be called out, so the person can work on bettering their actions. I don't like to think people are inherently bad, or that they get their fun from watching other people (sometimes former friends or associates) squirm. But what about when direct communication no longer becomes an option? When a situation that could be solved by a calm, collected discussion instead turns into shunning and hate? Or even just evasion of the issue?

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Hypothetical situation/question to all:

If I broke my arm and I was told to give it a rest while in a cast, I'd do so. Once my arm was healed, the cast would be removed. I've seen people who will just assume their arm has been amputated and pretend it doesn't exist anymore instead of trying to move it around and get it back into use. How would one go about trying to convince a person that their arm is no longer broken? That it's -OK- to use it again. Acknowledge it's there?

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If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by OttoVann - 05-13-2015, 01:47 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Unnamed Mercenary - 05-13-2015, 01:51 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Fox - 05-13-2015, 02:12 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Meena - 05-13-2015, 01:57 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Cato - 05-13-2015, 01:57 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Meena - 05-13-2015, 02:11 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Miah Polaali - 05-13-2015, 02:24 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Nebbs - 05-13-2015, 02:47 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Sailor July - 05-13-2015, 02:55 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by g0ne - 05-13-2015, 02:56 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Fox - 05-13-2015, 05:40 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Clover - 05-13-2015, 03:21 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Flickering Ember - 05-13-2015, 10:19 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Desu Nee - 05-13-2015, 10:29 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by TheLastCandle - 05-13-2015, 10:43 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Warren Castille - 05-13-2015, 10:49 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by D'aito Kuji - 05-13-2015, 01:04 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by TheLastCandle - 05-13-2015, 03:24 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Vali - 05-13-2015, 03:37 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Cato - 05-13-2015, 03:42 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by industrythirteen - 05-13-2015, 03:29 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Gone. - 05-13-2015, 03:39 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Maril - 05-13-2015, 04:29 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Sorora - 05-13-2015, 06:07 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Meena - 05-13-2015, 06:22 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Cato - 05-13-2015, 06:26 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Fox - 05-13-2015, 06:28 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Meena - 05-13-2015, 06:49 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Fox - 05-13-2015, 06:53 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Yssen - 05-13-2015, 07:53 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Fox - 05-13-2015, 08:07 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Yssen - 05-13-2015, 08:24 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by No Longer Exists - 05-13-2015, 07:24 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Aaron - 05-13-2015, 07:25 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by LadyRochester - 05-13-2015, 08:00 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Maril - 05-13-2015, 08:43 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by allgivenover - 05-13-2015, 08:03 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Cato - 05-13-2015, 08:07 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by ProvaDiServo - 05-13-2015, 08:48 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by allgivenover - 05-13-2015, 09:10 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by ProvaDiServo - 05-13-2015, 09:22 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by allgivenover - 05-13-2015, 10:36 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Cato - 05-13-2015, 10:40 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by allgivenover - 05-13-2015, 11:16 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Cato - 05-13-2015, 11:27 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Blue - 05-13-2015, 11:50 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Max - 05-13-2015, 08:06 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Askier - 05-13-2015, 08:23 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by LadyRochester - 05-13-2015, 08:40 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Askier - 05-13-2015, 09:17 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Cato - 05-13-2015, 09:22 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Aduu Avagnar - 05-13-2015, 08:24 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Cato - 05-13-2015, 08:29 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Yssen - 05-13-2015, 09:08 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Kage - 05-13-2015, 08:43 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Warren Castille - 05-13-2015, 08:56 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Alothia - 05-13-2015, 08:58 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by OttoVann - 05-13-2015, 09:11 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Alothia - 05-13-2015, 09:15 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by RiniKett - 05-13-2015, 09:14 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by T'caska Khevo - 05-13-2015, 09:22 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Melodia - 05-13-2015, 09:30 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Warren Castille - 05-13-2015, 09:34 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by shotgunbadger - 05-13-2015, 09:26 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by OttoVann - 05-13-2015, 09:26 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Askier - 05-13-2015, 09:55 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Unnamed Mercenary - 05-13-2015, 10:08 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Desu Nee - 05-13-2015, 10:18 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by ProvaDiServo - 05-13-2015, 09:41 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Alothia - 05-13-2015, 09:46 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Unnamed Mercenary - 05-13-2015, 09:52 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by LiadansWhisper - 05-13-2015, 09:56 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Enteris - 05-13-2015, 12:31 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by LiadansWhisper - 05-13-2015, 09:48 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by shotgunbadger - 05-13-2015, 09:58 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by OttoVann - 05-13-2015, 10:01 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by LiadansWhisper - 05-13-2015, 10:02 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Warren Castille - 05-13-2015, 10:03 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by OttoVann - 05-13-2015, 10:11 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Desu Nee - 05-13-2015, 10:02 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Reiner Dorn - 05-13-2015, 10:18 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Makyn Loneseeker - 05-13-2015, 10:38 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Alothia - 05-13-2015, 10:40 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Blue - 05-13-2015, 10:50 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Maril - 05-13-2015, 11:05 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Alothia - 05-13-2015, 10:52 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Kage - 05-13-2015, 10:57 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Alothia - 05-13-2015, 11:00 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Cato - 05-13-2015, 11:05 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by TheLastCandle - 05-13-2015, 11:03 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Alothia - 05-13-2015, 11:08 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by TheLastCandle - 05-13-2015, 11:23 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Accurator - 05-13-2015, 11:03 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Arrelaine - 05-13-2015, 11:06 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by AquiziTC - 05-13-2015, 11:17 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by McBeefâ„¢ - 05-13-2015, 11:58 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by OttoVann - 05-13-2015, 12:14 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Hammersmith - 05-13-2015, 11:59 AM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Nebbs - 05-13-2015, 12:17 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Unnamed Mercenary - 05-13-2015, 12:20 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Alothia - 05-13-2015, 12:20 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Kellach Woods - 05-13-2015, 12:31 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Seye Qhesu - 05-13-2015, 12:35 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by g0ne - 05-13-2015, 12:55 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by McBeefâ„¢ - 05-13-2015, 01:06 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by g0ne - 05-13-2015, 01:11 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Kage - 05-13-2015, 12:56 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Hammersmith - 05-13-2015, 01:08 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Virella - 05-13-2015, 01:07 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Max - 05-13-2015, 01:18 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Virella - 05-13-2015, 01:39 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Nebbs - 05-13-2015, 01:08 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Hammersmith - 05-13-2015, 01:08 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Verad - 05-13-2015, 01:23 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Warren Castille - 05-13-2015, 01:26 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Verad - 05-13-2015, 01:27 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Unnamed Mercenary - 05-13-2015, 01:30 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Verad - 05-13-2015, 01:31 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Unnamed Mercenary - 05-13-2015, 01:35 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Verad - 05-13-2015, 01:38 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Warren Castille - 05-13-2015, 01:32 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by TheLastCandle - 05-13-2015, 02:49 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Kellach Woods - 05-13-2015, 02:53 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Warren Castille - 05-13-2015, 02:55 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Verad - 05-13-2015, 02:57 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Melkire - 05-13-2015, 03:02 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Flashhelix - 05-13-2015, 04:10 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Kalooeh - 05-13-2015, 04:29 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by McBeefâ„¢ - 05-13-2015, 04:33 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Nebbs - 05-13-2015, 04:44 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by McBeefâ„¢ - 05-13-2015, 05:05 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Nebbs - 05-13-2015, 05:13 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Gone. - 05-13-2015, 05:14 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Warren Castille - 05-13-2015, 05:20 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Nebbs - 05-13-2015, 05:21 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by McBeefâ„¢ - 05-13-2015, 05:23 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Nebbs - 05-13-2015, 05:25 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by McBeefâ„¢ - 05-13-2015, 06:11 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Nebbs - 05-13-2015, 06:13 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by McBeefâ„¢ - 05-13-2015, 06:20 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by SessionZero - 05-13-2015, 06:24 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by McBeefâ„¢ - 05-13-2015, 06:26 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Nebbs - 05-13-2015, 06:27 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by McBeefâ„¢ - 05-13-2015, 06:30 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by ProvaDiServo - 05-13-2015, 06:16 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Nako Vesh - 05-13-2015, 05:36 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Sailor July - 05-13-2015, 05:49 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Edvyn - 05-13-2015, 05:38 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by ArmachiA - 05-13-2015, 06:11 PM
RE: If you can't be nice to people outside the RPC, you don't belong on the RPC. - by Melkire - 05-13-2015, 06:30 PM

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