
Not to sound biased, though I am, I think that you're looking for the experience that the Balmung server has to offer. The only issue is that the Balmung server is notoriously tricky to get into, however I actually made a post recently about the best way to get into the server that led to some other tips being offered as well [here]. I do hope it helps!
Alternatively, if you've no-mind to reroll anything about your character and you have the money to spare, a server swap is not hindered by creation limitations and will let you get right in with everyone so long as the character has been around for at least three actual days.
Regardless, welcome to the community, and I hope to see you around.
P.S. Hyur are the most common, but even then don't let anyone decide what you're doing. In an RP community you become special through the way you play your character, not the way they look!
Alternatively, if you've no-mind to reroll anything about your character and you have the money to spare, a server swap is not hindered by creation limitations and will let you get right in with everyone so long as the character has been around for at least three actual days.
Regardless, welcome to the community, and I hope to see you around.
P.S. Hyur are the most common, but even then don't let anyone decide what you're doing. In an RP community you become special through the way you play your character, not the way they look!