(06-26-2015, 06:00 AM)Nebbs Wrote:I agree, i have gotten VERY angry from posts or RP before, thats when i'll excuse myself and walk away. Ill log and do offline stuff, hit the punching bags or pel pole, then 'maybe' comeback if i dont feel my blood pressure rise from reading it again.(06-26-2015, 05:46 AM)Thorgar Wrote:(06-25-2015, 09:35 AM)Leggerless Wrote: Don't be an ass, basically.*hugs* this.. um this, and yeah this again lol.
Sadly Drama is there, it even spills over in to attacks and harassment.
All you can control is yourself, how you act and how you choose to let it affect you. It is unlikely you will change the cause of the drama by responding and judging them, this just feeds it more... then you have drama about drama.
Strive to be positive, there is no reward for being negative and don't waste your limited energy on it. And forgive people for yourself, not for them... this will always be a work in progress.
i have failed this a few times and felt like a jackarse for doing so. I'll own my mistake and apologize even if i think my response was warranted. a personal attack or any post that treats people like shyte is to be avoided at all times. like my old Grandpa used to say "treat others as you want to be treated and the world is a much nicer place"  course he also used to say "be kind and courteous at all times, you can always shoot them later if they earned it" lol.
