(07-05-2015, 03:12 PM)Graeham Wrote: It's not really healthy to expect someone to interact with you and only you. I hope you realise that it's the same mentality that abusive and manipulative partners often adopt? That's largely why it comes off as creepy even if it isn't your intention.
Bribing people/showering them with affection in exchange for exclusivity isn't really healthy either. Surely you'd be happier finding a bunch of role-players who are reliable yet happy and free to go off and do their own thing whenever the mood strikes them?
I doubt you will convince him to not like what he likes (Assuming he). I don't want to shame him for wanting this, he just needs to know that realistically this isn't really the place, and it looks creepy to the community.