
(07-06-2015, 07:27 PM)Coatleque Wrote:(07-06-2015, 06:42 PM)Edgar Wrote: My policy with this has always been the same:
"Fuck em."
And then you [see: not you personally] wonder why people stop talking to you. Seriously. NOT this. The attitude of "I do what I want" is one of the most selfish and off-putting ones in any role-play community. If you're not going to respect Square Enix's creation then don't expect any in return.
There is a line between doing what you like, and also understanding what will be palatable in the community at large.
Part of being a good community member, in my opinion, is to keep the viewpoints of others in mind, just like real life. That's how collaborative experiences work, "Fuck you I do what I want." Is not a good basis for collaboration, it's only a good basis for self absorption.
If you truly wish to just not give a fuck about what other's think, then things like forum RP or writing stories are good for that. IMO RP is all about collaboration, which requires give and take.