I seem to have an uncontrollable switch for being a "Wallflower". On some days I'm like "YO LETS GO RP YEAAAH" and smash by way through someone's house to RP with them like the kool-aid man, shouting "OH YEAAH" is optional. On other days I go into ultra shy mode and end up worrying more about people's expectations than actually going "You know, people aren't going to know your character until they meet them, so you should go out there already". I literally turn into a painting and get scared when people notice.Â
Is there a way for me to overcome that? Nope, I've never found a solution that works for me in particular. Sometimes I really do need someone to smash through a wall and yell at me when I'm in shy mode.
Open events are nice for things like this, just wish people were a little understanding that you can't just suddenly gain a boost of confidence or courage or whatever and get out there. Sometimes they need a nudge in the right direction, or a helping hand.
Is there a way for me to overcome that? Nope, I've never found a solution that works for me in particular. Sometimes I really do need someone to smash through a wall and yell at me when I'm in shy mode.
Open events are nice for things like this, just wish people were a little understanding that you can't just suddenly gain a boost of confidence or courage or whatever and get out there. Sometimes they need a nudge in the right direction, or a helping hand.
