(10-26-2015, 09:09 AM)Kattoki Wrote: Thanks for all the comments, I understand what you all mean. Though I am not looking for love online, I still have those feelings while talking to some people. A lot of people would say not to RP with personal emotions, but I wouldnt RP without emotions since that is my whole goal of RPing. IC most of my characters are looking for love, most never really got very far. But with some people like, this person in particular I feel that a IC relationship would work out.
I feel that it has to be agreed on by both parties of course, there have been IC relationships I have cringed at simply because those people dont tear at my heartstrings the way some of the others do.
Sometimes I even feel relationships IC are not such a good thing since they can take away from normal RP with others.
Meanwhile OOC I am very much feeling my own characters feelings, therefore I feel in love with that character but I am not going to try an actual relationship OOC with that person. I admit it would be nice, but I dont see it happening too much.
So just to clarify for people when I said I am falling in love for another character, I mean that in the IC sense of my character is falling for them. But OOC I am feeling these feelings and a real connection between the two.
Sounds like we were all very confused by your OP there. lol
Okay, so! A friend and I had been shipping our characters hardcore for a looooooooong time of playing early on when this game came out. She's married, I'm not, but damned if we both weren't utterly in love with how our characters were as a power couple. OOC, there were no personal feels other than knowing she was an amazing person and a great friend. IC though, we were constantly gushing about things and what we loved most or dreaming about new stuff the two were gonna do together, yadda yadda yadda. So in that respect, I feel there is absolutely nothing wrong with falling in love with characters played by others. I have ZOMG feels for lots of characters played by people I know and specifically a man-crush on Warren Castille because Reasons. Bromance! Enjoy it, it makes the game a lot more fun.
-Hatter
What a colossal waste of time and energy.
