It sounds as if you just haven't run into other MMORPG role-players that posses a similar style to your own style. Role playing runs the gamut, from those who are looking for in the moment fun where every scene must be full of adventure and excitement or it's simply just boring, to the more reserved types who want to explore what the more day to day life of a character living in a speculative fiction world would be like. There's the dramatically minded, the comically minded, the erotically minded, et cetera~
Obviously there's a lot of different styles of role play out there, and none of them are inherently better or worse. You're only doing it wrong if you try to force your style on others, or insist that people with different styles that don't really mesh very well must role play with each other and like it, or break some common etiquette - like lore-breaking or god-moding.
My advice is to just be proactive and try to RP casually with a lot of people so that you can find those that have a style similar to your own. I assure you that those mindful of consequence and interested in building a shared narrative can be found in MMORPG role playing, I'm one of them after all.
Obviously there's a lot of different styles of role play out there, and none of them are inherently better or worse. You're only doing it wrong if you try to force your style on others, or insist that people with different styles that don't really mesh very well must role play with each other and like it, or break some common etiquette - like lore-breaking or god-moding.
My advice is to just be proactive and try to RP casually with a lot of people so that you can find those that have a style similar to your own. I assure you that those mindful of consequence and interested in building a shared narrative can be found in MMORPG role playing, I'm one of them after all.
