I think your frustrations are valid, and you're certainly not alone in these sorts of feelings.
Finding a FC that's right for you can be tough, but I think that applying to them is one of the best ways to find a foothold in the community. I would say, keep at it! Every FC is run by a different group of people who have different codes of conduct, so no two will be exactly alike. While FC A and B might leave a bad impression on you, that's not to say that FC C or D would do the same. As you make your way down this theoretical alphabet, you'll likely bump into one that clicks.
Another thing to consider when applying to a FC or RP guild is their expectations regarding "power level." For example, Rendezvous is fairly "average" in terms of expected character power level. While it may be perfectly within the lore that a character could hold all of the same abilities as the Warrior of Light, that level of capability just wouldn't jive with the narrative of our plot. It's possible that while your character is perfectly possible within the lore, she just might not fit some RP groups if she's too extraordinary in terms of raw ability.
That being said, many groups also don't care about how powerful, skilled, or extraordinary a character is. I'd still encourage you to keep up your search!
I also might recommend keeping an eye out for certain types of events here in the RPC, if you feel like you're getting lost in the crowd. Our monthly Host Club event, for example, goes to great lengths to pair up every Guest with their own Host/Hostess, to ensure everyone who shows up gets individualized RP. Tournament-style events may also be good for this, as you could get direct RP by default if your character enters as a contender?
Finding a FC that's right for you can be tough, but I think that applying to them is one of the best ways to find a foothold in the community. I would say, keep at it! Every FC is run by a different group of people who have different codes of conduct, so no two will be exactly alike. While FC A and B might leave a bad impression on you, that's not to say that FC C or D would do the same. As you make your way down this theoretical alphabet, you'll likely bump into one that clicks.
Another thing to consider when applying to a FC or RP guild is their expectations regarding "power level." For example, Rendezvous is fairly "average" in terms of expected character power level. While it may be perfectly within the lore that a character could hold all of the same abilities as the Warrior of Light, that level of capability just wouldn't jive with the narrative of our plot. It's possible that while your character is perfectly possible within the lore, she just might not fit some RP groups if she's too extraordinary in terms of raw ability.
That being said, many groups also don't care about how powerful, skilled, or extraordinary a character is. I'd still encourage you to keep up your search!
I also might recommend keeping an eye out for certain types of events here in the RPC, if you feel like you're getting lost in the crowd. Our monthly Host Club event, for example, goes to great lengths to pair up every Guest with their own Host/Hostess, to ensure everyone who shows up gets individualized RP. Tournament-style events may also be good for this, as you could get direct RP by default if your character enters as a contender?