Some of what you've said is a little situational. For instance, I care about my friends and if someone is ordinarily around daily, and suddenly they're just gone for a full day or two without having said anything, of course I'm going to worry and I'll be curious what happened, and I'll ask them when they get back. But, like most things, the devil's in the details - if the way that the person exhibits this behavior comes across as less "worry" and more "how dare you not be at my beck and call", well, then obviously that's uncool.
Communication is key, though. If you try to communicate your concerns with them and they don't respond in a constructive manner (e.g. they react with guilt trips, manipulative comments, ultimatums, etc) then you know they aren't really interested in your friendship, because friends communicate.
Communication is key, though. If you try to communicate your concerns with them and they don't respond in a constructive manner (e.g. they react with guilt trips, manipulative comments, ultimatums, etc) then you know they aren't really interested in your friendship, because friends communicate.
Lydia Lightfoot ~ The Reliquarian's Guild «Relic» ~ Lavender Beds, Ward 12, #41
This player has a sense of humor. If the content of the post suggests otherwise, please err on the side of amusement and friendship, because that's almost certainly the intent. We're all on the same team: Team Roleplayer! Have a smile, have a chuckle, and have a slice of pie. Isn't pie great?
This player has a sense of humor. If the content of the post suggests otherwise, please err on the side of amusement and friendship, because that's almost certainly the intent. We're all on the same team: Team Roleplayer! Have a smile, have a chuckle, and have a slice of pie. Isn't pie great?
