Again thanks for all the replies.
Some of the situational stuff, its common for me personally to take random leaves of absence. It might be I am playing a different game, or busy with real life stuff. I have let people know constantly that my life is this way. There are time due to time zone differences where my partner comes online and I am about to go to bed because of the time zones. We both know each other times zones, and work around them to play together.
Its just for me personally I sometimes feel restricted once that time comes to play or rp with them even if I want to rp or play something else. I of course want to please my partner, and do right by them. I dont despise them or anything like that at all. I just feel somewhat smothered by the amount to time we spend together.
In Character, my character loves her partner. However just as ooc I feel smothered ic she also feels smothered. What I mean is, ic I am a treasure hunter I enjoy going to the quicksand I have friends there and I just enjoy having a good time and a laugh there. IC my partner had a bad experience there so she rarely goes there, and only does come when I have gone there or am missing from my room. IC my partner then comes along and somewhat forces me to leave the place because she feels uncomfortable being there. IC I would say I am fine in Ul'dah, that I have experience living there and being in a place like that, but that doesnt stop them from coming and forcing me back.
Now I dont mind spending time with them, IC or OOC but I am restricted from seeing any other people or friends, or making new friends.
OOC, the often complain how they dont like the place. So the avoid it, but I am fine with going there and have told them that I am fine going there ic or ooc.
Some of the situational stuff, its common for me personally to take random leaves of absence. It might be I am playing a different game, or busy with real life stuff. I have let people know constantly that my life is this way. There are time due to time zone differences where my partner comes online and I am about to go to bed because of the time zones. We both know each other times zones, and work around them to play together.
Its just for me personally I sometimes feel restricted once that time comes to play or rp with them even if I want to rp or play something else. I of course want to please my partner, and do right by them. I dont despise them or anything like that at all. I just feel somewhat smothered by the amount to time we spend together.
In Character, my character loves her partner. However just as ooc I feel smothered ic she also feels smothered. What I mean is, ic I am a treasure hunter I enjoy going to the quicksand I have friends there and I just enjoy having a good time and a laugh there. IC my partner had a bad experience there so she rarely goes there, and only does come when I have gone there or am missing from my room. IC my partner then comes along and somewhat forces me to leave the place because she feels uncomfortable being there. IC I would say I am fine in Ul'dah, that I have experience living there and being in a place like that, but that doesnt stop them from coming and forcing me back.
Now I dont mind spending time with them, IC or OOC but I am restricted from seeing any other people or friends, or making new friends.
OOC, the often complain how they dont like the place. So the avoid it, but I am fine with going there and have told them that I am fine going there ic or ooc.