Hey there!
As someone who is also ICly married, I would like to tell you my thoughts on this topic, and maybe help you a little bit.
As Nebula and the others said, you have to talk it out. I think the best is doing it ICly and also OOCly, why? Because I don't think anything you do ICly will work if you don't let your partner know how you are feeling.
I think the best thing to do is talking to your partner about wich boundaries you wouldn't like to cross, or what things you don't want to give up on, even being in a marriage. You guys need to talk it out OCCly and find a 'common place' where both of you will be having fun with the RP.
After this is done, and hopefully you both understood and respected each others wishes, you can discuss it IC.Â
I think communication is one of the most important thing in any relationship, any! IRL or In a roleplay. So try to talk it out before actually doing something you might regret laterÂ
As someone who is also ICly married, I would like to tell you my thoughts on this topic, and maybe help you a little bit.
As Nebula and the others said, you have to talk it out. I think the best is doing it ICly and also OOCly, why? Because I don't think anything you do ICly will work if you don't let your partner know how you are feeling.
I think the best thing to do is talking to your partner about wich boundaries you wouldn't like to cross, or what things you don't want to give up on, even being in a marriage. You guys need to talk it out OCCly and find a 'common place' where both of you will be having fun with the RP.
After this is done, and hopefully you both understood and respected each others wishes, you can discuss it IC.Â
I think communication is one of the most important thing in any relationship, any! IRL or In a roleplay. So try to talk it out before actually doing something you might regret laterÂ
